Dawn: I thought you were adequate. Giles: And the accolades keep pouring in. I'd best take my leave before my head swells any larger. Good night.

'First Date'


Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych


Laura - Nov 18, 2005 5:53:03 am PST #5896 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Hee. Deb is channeling Perkins.


Kat - Nov 18, 2005 5:54:02 am PST #5897 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

t sheepish Embarrassed at being called out on skimming.

Doh. It's early. I read too fast. I'm sorry.


Lee - Nov 18, 2005 5:58:10 am PST #5898 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I was a secondsie too

I wasn't sure, because of your edit, Laura, so I left you off. Sorry I misread it.


Laura - Nov 18, 2005 6:11:25 am PST #5899 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

You didn't misread Perky. I was more than vague.


Betsy HP - Nov 18, 2005 6:20:26 am PST #5900 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

I wasn't sure, because of your edit, Laura, so I left you off. Sorry I misread it.

You didn't misread Perky. I was more than vague.

This? Is how it is supposed to work. The person who goofed, even in a minor incident, says "Sorry". The person who might be offended says "Oh, don't worry about it." And social comfort is maintained.


Nutty - Nov 18, 2005 6:29:54 am PST #5901 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

Okay. Not having followed any of the linky citations Kat originally provided, I think we can say she and her ten agree-ers have followed the warning procedure. Could a Stompy Foot let Bureau know when a warning has been issued?

Then we can immediately get started on the meta-conversation about cocktail parties, communities, back-scratching, social capital, Light Bulbs, guacamole, the Politics Thread, wuffie, and all of us living in a van down by the river.

(Remember wuffie??)


Volans - Nov 18, 2005 6:35:10 am PST #5902 of 10001
move out and draw fire

I know it's embarassing to get called on posts, I've been there, certainly, but it comes down to how much you care about the community and the people within it, if it's a lot, then a little embarassment won't hold one back from trying to work it out and make some amends and a genuine effort to think about the words in the box and how they may affect others before tapping the Post Message button, yeah?

I agree so much with this.


Lee - Nov 18, 2005 6:42:48 am PST #5903 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Betsy reminds me that I meant to say:

No worries, Kat, and sorry it seemed I was calliing you out. Actually, I had to reread my own post to see if I had put Ginger in, since I had been thinking about it.


admin - Nov 18, 2005 6:54:59 am PST #5904 of 10001
Big Stompy Foot

From Cheesebutt:

Warnings will be in effect for four months. [During this time, a warnable offense results in a suspension.] After four months, the slate is wiped clean.

A Warning will be notified over email, in the thread of incident, and in Bureaucracy.

To that end -- dylan, per Buffista procedure, an attempt to resolve offense in thread ( dw "Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind." Nov 17, 2005 11:13:31 pm PST) hasn't met with satisfaction from all parties. Kat, here: Kat "Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?" Nov 17, 2005 11:40:03 pm PST, requests a warning, and ten people have seconded her. Therefore -- this is an official warning.

It seems that you've violated our community etiquette standards, viewable here. We've tried to resolve it in the context of your posts, but it looks like a problem. Please consider this an official warning that your behavior is not acceptable in this community.

To discuss your warning or your situation, please do so here. Thank you, and we hope to resolve this problem.


Jesse - Nov 18, 2005 7:01:15 am PST #5905 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

We have had good results from warnings, haven't we? That is, a poster(s) who didn't understand that he/she was rubbing people the wrong way being warned, and then coming back to be a good, regular and valued poster?

I think that's true. I don't remember who's specifically been warned or just "handled in thread," but I know there are people who came in to the b.org with a more aggressive tone than is appropriate in this community, and have learned to cool off.

I know we say this all the time, but the fact is, this community is not necessarily like the internet as a whole, and behavior or tone that is fine elsewhere will ruffle feathers here, and some people need to specifically learn that if they want to get along here. Others are here because they don't like the more aggressive places.

Anyway.