It's the deciding and redeciding and arguing about the decision that has led to the worst Buffista bitternesses. Let's go with this decision, which was made according to the understood rules.
Amen. And keep in mind I'm speaking as one of those people who voted for the runner up. NO is just fine. If I can afford the trip when the time comes, I'll be there, and it will be lots of fun because Buffistas are there and there are cool things to see and do. Besides, if we went by my internal thermometer, we'd have to have all our F2Fs on Vancouver Island or the Scottish Highlands or somesuch, and while that'd be really cool in every possible sense, it'd be a bit spendy and logistically challenging.