Don't let the space bugs bite!

Kaylee ,'Objects In Space'


F2F 2: Is there anybody here that hasn't slept together?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: New Orleans! May 20-22, 2005!


Allyson - Sep 01, 2004 8:32:58 am PDT #8544 of 9999
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

ChiKat, I've no pictures. Here's Day One.

I took the day off from work on Wednesday to pick Nilly up at LAX. I checked the flight time, and she was getting in a half hour earlier than expected. PANIC. I scrawled her name on a sign, and hauled ass to LAX.

When I got there, I was so overwhelmed with fear that poor Nilly was sitting around thinking no one would be there for her. I called Kristen to say, "I CAN'T FIND EL AL."

Kristen, who loves me, despite me, calmly and without accusing me of complete stupidity, said, "Tom Bradley International, honey."

Of course.

I pulled into parking, ran to the terminal. Couldn't find Nilly. Maybe she was outside. Maybe she went home, thinking we had all played a cruel joke on her.

Outside on the glass wall, an enormous Star of David reflected on the glass. Nilly's plane was making a turn-around and the Israeli flag painted on the tail appeared larger than life. A sign from God. NILLY IS HERE, JACKASS.

Ran back into terminal, desperately trying to find someone I'd never met. Tiny Israeli sprite charges me, throwing her wee arms around my neck. I'm either under attack, or it's Nilly. She hadn't even seen my sign.

I start talking, very fast. Nilly wrinkles her brow, only getting every fourth word.

We get in the car and start traveling back to Los Feliz. It's a long ride, mid-day.

We went through West Hollywood, and Nilly excitedly read the signs on the shops, all in hebrew. She kept saying, "EVERYTHING IS SOOO BIIIG!"

I tried to speak slower. I said, "I have something to tell you. I know you must be exhausted, but, Tim is taking you to dinner, tonight."

Nilly glowed with a silent smile, ear to ear.

We got to my place, she pulled presents from her bag.

"I couldn't find clean sand from Israel, but I did find this..."

It was a tiny pot filled with soil, and a packet of seeds. So, flowers from Israel. Lovely. Also, a homewarming prayer etched on a silver plated hand.

Nilly kept reaching out to touch me, and smiled and smiled some more. She was so tired, and so overwhelmed that this thing was real.

We talked awhile and then got ready to leave for dinner.

She had a lovely dress, shiny black hair down her back, and a tiny backpack with a pot leaf stitched on the front. I later learned that it was the only bag she could find that fit both a bottle of water and her wallet, comfortably.

We got to the restaurant, Nilly embraced Tim. He's uncomfortable with thank yous for generosity, quickly talked about Something Anything Else. We ate, he talked to Nilly for a long time about Israel's history, a favorite subject of his, she was noticeably giddy that he even knew the name of the Israeli national newspaper, taught him how to correcvtly pronounce it. He picked up his phone and called John. "What's Joss doing?" "Nilly, can you visit the set with me next week?"

The visit never came to fruition, but we had to mop Nilly up off the floor when the offer came, she had melted.

We met at 7, left at 11. Got home, Nilly fell asleep in a tiny heap on the corner of the bed, in the middle of a sentence.

More later.


Daisy Jane - Sep 01, 2004 8:36:50 am PDT #8545 of 9999
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Allyson, dude, little teary here.


Steph L. - Sep 01, 2004 8:37:27 am PDT #8546 of 9999
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Allyson, dude, little teary here.

Me, too!


Deena - Sep 01, 2004 8:40:12 am PDT #8547 of 9999
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Oh Allyson, that's so special. Thanks.

Cindy, I was grinning at your story, remembering me telling Greg about Karl and the backrub -- about which he displayed not an iota of jealousy and said he'd like to meet Karl because he sounds like such a great guy.


Toddson - Sep 01, 2004 8:41:29 am PDT #8548 of 9999
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Just for the record, any previous posters are NOT crazy - I'd forgotten people and messed up names, so I went back and corrected it. At least they're not crazy in THAT way.


Frankenbuddha - Sep 01, 2004 8:52:46 am PDT #8549 of 9999
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Getting a bit sniffly here myself.

She kept saying, "EVERYTHING IS SOOO BIIIG!"

She said this in Boston as well. I can only imagine what she thought of New York.


Lilty Cash - Sep 01, 2004 8:55:01 am PDT #8550 of 9999
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

She said this in Boston as well. I can only imagine what she thought of New York.

That's what I told her in Boston Commons. She was so into the nature set into the city- I said it was nothing compared to the contrast of stepping from the street into Central Park.


juliana - Sep 01, 2004 8:59:46 am PDT #8551 of 9999
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Tiny Israeli sprite charges me, throwing her wee arms around my neck.

Oh, love.


deborah grabien - Sep 01, 2004 9:06:46 am PDT #8552 of 9999
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

She kept saying, "EVERYTHING IS SOOO BIIIG!"

She said this in Boston as well. I can only imagine what she thought of New York.

In San Francisco, she kept saying "Everything is SOOOOO PRETTTTTY!"

And also "YAY!" with a kind of squeaky joy.

Allyson, that's just such a perfect picture. I think anyone who's actually met her will immediately visualise.


ChiKat - Sep 01, 2004 9:18:04 am PDT #8553 of 9999
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Thanks, Allyson. A balm to the wound of not seeing Nilly.