Saffron: But we've been wed. Aren't we to become one flesh? Mal: Well, no, uh... We're still two fleshes here, and I think that your flesh ought to sleep somewhere else.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


F2F 2: Is there anybody here that hasn't slept together?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: New Orleans! May 20-22, 2005!


Lee - Aug 16, 2004 2:46:58 am PDT #7500 of 9999
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

How can a curse that is already working not be in effect until tomorrow?


Jon B. - Aug 16, 2004 2:54:17 am PDT #7501 of 9999
A turkey in every toilet -- only in America!

Kosher bathtub?

The only reference I could find was here. It has to do with a cleansing ritual during a woman's period. The "bathtub" is not in one's home, but in a special location under Rabbinical supervision. It's unclear to me if single women even need to do the ritual. In other words, don't worry about it!

t on edit - just read natter Or you just get one-o-them kosher sponges. In any case, it doesn't appear to be very difficult.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 16, 2004 3:13:53 am PDT #7502 of 9999
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

echoing Deb's bathtub anxiety. Our tub will be clean for Nilly's visit, and, you know, that's a pretty special occasion in and of itself.

Heh. Off to read Natter.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 16, 2004 3:44:56 am PDT #7503 of 9999
What is even happening?

Jon is talking about a mikvah, which is a ritual purity bath (and you can't usually take one at home because it has to be living water, and there's a lot to this lalalala...digress) a woman must take after her monthly (and after giving birth and other stuff...). I don't think that's the issue, here.

I am guessing that either to ensure there is no mildew (there's lots in the Torah about mildew), or to kosher-clean a tub a menstruating woman could have once used, a certified cleansing agent is probably needed.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 16, 2004 3:48:14 am PDT #7504 of 9999
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

OK, that can be part of the post-airport pickup grocery run. s'cool. Nilly knows what Nilly needs, and we'll handle it when she gets here.


Lee - Aug 16, 2004 3:51:41 am PDT #7505 of 9999
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Or maybe we were just kidding around...


Nora Deirdre - Aug 16, 2004 3:56:59 am PDT #7506 of 9999
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

X-posted from an email I sent this morning (which I've not received yet, so, um, maybe I didn't send it)

Boston area plans (so far):

Monday night- gathering at Tom and Nora's with party snacks and party beverages. starting 7:30ish.

Tuesday day - I don't know. Some sort of sightseeing, I'm sure it will be arranged on Monday night, or something. I can't participate, so am not taking the lead on this.

Tuesday night- hanging out and having dinner in Brookline/Harvard Ave / Coolidge Corner area. Time and place of dinner TBD.

Lee! Allyson! joking about kosher sponges? Have you no shaaaaaaame? I've gone full circle and will spaz no mo'.


billytea - Aug 16, 2004 5:22:29 am PDT #7507 of 9999
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it, does it make a sound?

No, it just lurks and supports other trees in email.


Allyson - Aug 16, 2004 5:29:48 am PDT #7508 of 9999
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Nilly's dad left a message on my voicemail. Cutest thing. He said, "I don't speak English like Nilly speaks English...and then spoke in Hebrew for the rest.


§ ita § - Aug 16, 2004 5:44:45 am PDT #7509 of 9999
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

So you're saying Nilly's father is cuter than my mother? Is Mummy going to be removed from your comedy rotation?