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Harmony ,'Help'


F2F 2: Is there anybody here that hasn't slept together?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: New Orleans! May 20-22, 2005!


deborah grabien - Jun 03, 2004 9:36:41 pm PDT #4996 of 9999
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

True, but they don't hunt as singletons, do they? The ants, I mean? One of them versus one of me, I could squash its tiny head. The danger's in a group.

And the difference between venoms does make a huge difference. Truly. Trust me: been there, nearly died because of it, courtesy of the shiny black spider with the read smeary mark on her belly, aged nine (me, not the spider). There are degrees between venom types - some are way more venomous than others.

Hell, California's main genuinely venomous spider is the brown recluse, which rarely comes above ground and is mostly a danger to people like sewer workers and people who work in tunnels. But the bite will wreak severe havoc on people with or without any particular venom sensitivity; Nic would be very close to being as at risk as I am, and he isn't allergic. They're just truly toxic buggers. The skin begins to rot off, and it happens fast, and it spreads.

Whereas a bee sting would give him a bump, while I require epipen at warp nine, and a fast ride to the casualty ward.


Java cat - Jun 03, 2004 11:23:14 pm PDT #4997 of 9999
Not javachik

My friends' computer has a much higher resolution than I have at work and I just looked at all the F2F photos again. My fingers are ITCHING to take more photos of all the foamy folk. You guys are a good lookin' bunch of people.

Love the group photo in front of the Capitol. Wish there'd been one of the whole group, wahh! too late. Next time? Schedule a group photo opp time, or is that too anathema?


brenda m - Jun 04, 2004 2:59:35 am PDT #4998 of 9999
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

The driver ants creep me out far more than funnelwebs do. if a person is unfortunate enough to be caught in their path (granted, a person would have to be incapacitated, and no risk of anaphylactic shock, as they don't sting) -

Gah, I read a book years ago that had that scenario. Until now, I thought I'd successfully blocked it out. Thanks, guys.


DXMachina - Jun 04, 2004 3:01:33 am PDT #4999 of 9999
You always do this. We get tipsy, and you take advantage of my love of the scientific method.

I can live in harmony with spiders and bugs as long as there's only one or two of them. It's when they decide to throw a party without asking me that I get annoyed.

Also, number...


Toddson - Jun 04, 2004 3:18:04 am PDT #5000 of 9999
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Just to add to the fun - were you aware that king crabs are also arachnids?


Jessica - Jun 04, 2004 4:04:42 am PDT #5001 of 9999
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Just to add to the fun - were you aware that king crabs are also arachnids?

Yes, but unless you live in Alaska, you'll pretty much only ever see the legs. Which look like food, not spiders. (Same with lobster -- whole, they look like the overgrown bugs they are. But their tails look like food.)


§ ita § - Jun 04, 2004 4:07:55 am PDT #5002 of 9999
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

their tails look like food

Their flesh looks like food. Their tails look like a strange way to spend an afternoon.


Steph L. - Jun 04, 2004 4:30:07 am PDT #5003 of 9999
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Schedule a group photo opp time, or is that too anathema?

It's a worthy goal, but might be like herding cats. Buffistas tend to be easily distracted by shiny things. So, en route to the photo location, Buffista #1 would realize she needed to go back down to her room to get her tiara, Buffista #2 would be too absorbed in squeeing over [insert objet de fannish adoration here], which would draw Buffistas #3, 4 and 5. Buffista #1 would come back, but #s 2-5 would still be squeeing, so while you tried to pry them away from the TV/computer/comic book, Buffista #1 would wander off with Buffist #6, because they decided that they need ice to make mojitos. As soon as they left, Buffistas #2-5 would have finally joined the group, but wait! Buffistas #1 and #6 are getting ice....

Herding cats.


Nora Deirdre - Jun 04, 2004 4:39:32 am PDT #5004 of 9999
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Nothing F2F related, but Susan, I love that book "Hug". A friend of mine gave it to my sister as a shower gift and it resulted in all of us calling Sean "Bobo" while he was still in the womb.


JohnSweden - Jun 04, 2004 4:43:00 am PDT #5005 of 9999
I can't even.

Herding cats.

Agreed, but I think it is worth trying to have one, make the time well-known and take the picture once you have anything resembling a quorum. Anything else would be crazy-making.