What? She killed 'em with mathematics. What else could it have been?

Jayne ,'Objects In Space'


We're Literary 2: To Read Makes Our Speaking English Good  

There's more to life than watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer! No. Really, there is! Honestly! Here's a place for Buffistas to come and discuss what it is they're reading, their favorite authors and poets. "Geez. Crack a book sometime."


Daisy Jane - Jul 11, 2004 7:54:06 pm PDT #4999 of 10002
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I was never told not to read. I was even allowed to stay up and read in my room until I fell asleep. I think mom figured I was unlikely to just drop off, and better to have me reading than tossing and turning. Reading at the table was no problem since I was an only latchkey kid, so no parent for dinner. Otherwise we were at the tennis courts where no one really cared what I did.


billytea - Jul 11, 2004 7:55:01 pm PDT #5000 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Funnily enough, I found book-a-thons counterproductive for my reading habits. I was fine when it was for my own pleasure, but I have a peculiar stubborn streak at times when someone else is trying to tell me what to do.


Susan W. - Jul 11, 2004 7:56:15 pm PDT #5001 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I was allowed to read at the table if I was eating by myself, but not at family meals.

I picked up love of books at home. Both my parents read a lot, and some of my earliest memories are of my mother taking me to the library, and the vaguely musty book-smell, and having to stand on tiptoe to place my books on the check-out counter.


§ ita § - Jul 11, 2004 8:02:06 pm PDT #5002 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My parents still don't like when we read at the table. Though I suspect newpapers might get a pass. Table's for either eating or talking. Growing up in Jamaica, eating in front of the TV wasn't really an issue. We did have one house in England with a TV in the kitchen, and that was tolerated.


Hil R. - Jul 11, 2004 8:04:28 pm PDT #5003 of 10002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

We were never allowed to read at the table. It wasn't even an issue, or something I'd try to sneak by -- it was something that was just Not Done.


§ ita § - Jul 11, 2004 8:05:16 pm PDT #5004 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother doesn't even like us to do it now, when we're alone.


Angus G - Jul 11, 2004 8:15:16 pm PDT #5005 of 10002
Roguish Laird

I hated read-a-thons too; you got sponsored for a certain amount per book, which favoured those who were still reading picture books over those of us who were reading 300-page novels! I always found that most unfair. And I resent to this day the idea that reading more = reading better.


P.M. Marc - Jul 11, 2004 9:36:48 pm PDT #5006 of 10002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I've been reading longer than I can remember. I got my first book of mythology when I was 4 (I think I still have it, but it's probably at mother and dad's place in the basement). I was on novels by the time I hit 5. Read Hitchhiker's Guide for the first time when I was 7 or 8.

My parents have no room to talk to me about how many books I have (I've never once been asked by anyone if I'd read all those books), as they have many, many more. Plus magazines. I expect the shelves to collapse at any time, based on the amount of sagging from overload. (They have pretty narrow interests, though, which is why I spent huge amounts of time reading natural history texts, science fiction, and nursing manuals before they started letting me choose my own books at the library.)

The only times I can recall being told not to read was when I was being punished for something. Long drives? Need me to be quiet? Hand me a book. Or two.

At no point growing up did I consider this unusual, which I suppose was a side benefit of being placed in the gifted and talented program with my fellow addicts. (Ah, the joys of trading books after class and learning ALL about sex through Piers Anthony's more adult works. Good times, good times.)


Fred Pete - Jul 12, 2004 3:54:14 am PDT #5007 of 10002
Ann, that's a ferret.

Ah, Literary Conversation #3 -- Childhood Reading Habits.

I nagged my mother to teach me to read, though I'm not sure where I picked up the bug. She insisted on waiting until I turned 4.

My teachers didn't encourage reading so much as they did "work at your own pace." I went to a -- not progressive, but also not quite traditional grade school. My 3rd grade teacher set up a number of stations around the room where you could go when your work was done. Each station had an envelope with a number of slips of paper with ideas for constructive things to do -- one said simply, "Think."

In 6th grade, the school started a new math system that was entirely work-at-your-own-pace. I blew through it and spent the second semester helping to grade papers and tutor other students (mostly in my younger brother's class, which he didn't appreciate -- but that's another story). In reading class, I read ahead -- and ended up well ahead of everyone.

In 7th or 8th grade, the school system started what they called USSR -- Uninterrupted Sustained Silent Reading. Every Friday afternoon, we'd spend half an hour reading something of our own choice. I spent much of the semester on Shelby Foote's history of the Civil War.

After 8th grade, we moved to another school district. My sophomore English teacher gave us all a list of books that some expert/group believed people "should" read to be considered educated. She added Watership Down. She then asked us to read one book off the list (our choice) and discuss with a group.

Oh, and Plei, I learned a whole lot about sex from reading The Godfather.


Lilty Cash - Jul 12, 2004 3:56:54 am PDT #5008 of 10002
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Hehe, I used to read at the dinner table all the time. My mom was generally ok with it, although it often meant I would sit at the table loooong after dinner was done. I used to have the habit of keeping books around the table that I'd even read before, too- enough to the point that I could open it at and point and know exactly what was going on, so I would just pick it up at dinner, open it anywhere, and start reading.