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We're Literary 2: To Read Makes Our Speaking English Good  

There's more to life than watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer! No. Really, there is! Honestly! Here's a place for Buffistas to come and discuss what it is they're reading, their favorite authors and poets. "Geez. Crack a book sometime."


msbelle - Mar 22, 2004 10:03:54 am PST #1734 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

From the last 6 months, I have really liked the following:

Mystic River
Coraline
Middlesex
Fast Women
A Gracious Plenty
Girl with a Pearl Earring
A Cold Day for Murder

I have liked enough to keep them (or would if they were mine to keep):

Cold Mountain
You are not a a stranger here
Play with Fire

I have started a lending circle for my Crusie's and will do so with my Lippmans and Lehane's also. Everything else either gets sold on half.com or released ala bookcrossing.com.


Vortex - Mar 22, 2004 10:07:39 am PST #1735 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I've never read it either. It just happened to be a book that wasn't available at my grade school.

That’s okay, because your aren’t a full,tenured English professor at a highly respected institution of higher learning.

When I like something, I don't want to give it back. And I form an irrational attachment to the actual physical book I read the first time. No, I don't want a shiny new one of my own, I want this on

me too. Plus, I can’t wrap my mind around spending money for something I’ve already read. It’s why I don’t own many DVDs. I don’t want to spend money on a movie I haven’t seen, I might hate it, and once I’ve seen it, why spend money on it. I guess I’m just cheap.

I had too many bad books from my book-of-the-month club phase, and not enough shelves.

I have a hard time throwing books away. If I really hate it, I might give it away, but that’s hard, because I don’t want to inflict a bad book on anyone else. For example, my mother gave me a copy of “the Rules”. I will never read it, yet I can’t bring myself to throw it away. In fact, it is turned around in my bookshelf because I am ashamed to own it, but still, I don’t throw it out. I need help.


Jesse - Mar 22, 2004 10:10:21 am PST #1736 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Vortex, this is when you leave the book on a stoop somewhere. Someone will pick it up and read it, and it's out of your hands.


amyparker - Mar 22, 2004 10:13:49 am PST #1737 of 10002
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

I have a hard time throwing books away. If I really hate it, I might give it away, but that’s hard, because I don’t want to inflict a bad book on anyone else.

Prisons, libraries, homeless shelters, hospitals. Any and all of them are a better place for a book that is taking up physical space on your shelves and wasting mental energy that could be spent on something you enjoy. Someone, somewhere, will like it; it's okay to admit that you don't, or you once did and don't anymore, and let it go. This one was tough for me, and I'm still learning it.


Vortex - Mar 22, 2004 10:27:07 am PST #1738 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Someone, somewhere, will like it; it's okay to admit that you don't, or you once did and don't anymore, and let it go. This one was tough for me, and I'm still learning it.

I can do this. Of course, giving this particular book away will involve admitting to someone that I actually owned it. Or I can leave it furtively somewhere, like porn. No, not like porn, 'cause I'm not ashamed to own porn. Or wouldn't be if I had any.


Java cat - Mar 22, 2004 10:33:17 am PST #1739 of 10002
Not javachik

I'm guessing that everyone in the thread swooned during the scene in the Disney Beauty and the Beast when the Beast gave a multi-story library to Beauty. I know I did. A friend called me up and said, you have to see this movie because you'll love this scene about a library - trust me, just go see it.

Having a library like that was my dream when I was younger and I was working towards it when I realized that I'd run out of space and that I could take a trip to a warm water island instead for the cost of keeping buying books.


Katerina Bee - Mar 22, 2004 10:35:54 am PST #1740 of 10002
Herding cats for fun

...sigh. Beast's library had the rolling ladder on tracks, too.


DavidS - Mar 22, 2004 10:37:37 am PST #1741 of 10002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Y'all know you can just drop your books off at Salvation Army or Goodwill or St. Vincent De Paul and make some unemployed slacker on a budget happy, right? You don't have to sign anything, just put 'em in a bag, drop 'em off and somebody else will read them and they won't get wasted.

Plus, also, used bookstores - a good place to recoup your investment.

Also JZ has sold a lot of her books online. Half.com, I think or maybe just eBay.


Pix - Mar 22, 2004 10:37:41 am PST #1742 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I like to own books. The size of my apartment and of my paycheck keep me going back to the library. Given unlimited funds and bookcases, I would go to my favorite bookstore and buy about every third book. Then I would take them home. Then I would rub my hands over them and cackle.

What?

Calli! Sister mine!

Dave has threatened to take away my internet access because I Can't Be Trusted at Amazon.com. Half of my garage is empty Amazon boxes. I have great memories of going to the library every week as a kid...and I want to still love the library, but I have this terrible "It's our Precious and we LIKES its!" reaction to my books.

I have a terrible time throwing or giving any of them away. I only just this past week threw out a moldering copy of Anne of Green Gables that I got as a child. And it hurt. I could hear it weeping.


Java cat - Mar 22, 2004 10:38:42 am PST #1743 of 10002
Not javachik

I know!! A library well worth swooning over.

The hang out for all my friends in high school was the library. It's where we met, every day. We weren't goody-two shoes either; we'd meet there and go drive around and get stoned then come back and hang out some more. We were mostly in the same classes.