Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Boxed Set, Vol. 1: Smallville, Due South, Farscape  

A topic for the discussion of Farscape, Smallville, and Due South. Beware possible invasions of Stargate, Highlander, or pretty much anything else that captures our fancy. Expect Adult Content and discussion of the Big Gay Sex.


P.M. Marc - Oct 02, 2003 9:31:04 am PDT #865 of 10000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I think Riot Grrrl is one of those terms that conjures up a slightly different image for everybody.

Okay, and my image is directly informed by being at the movement's ground zero.

It's weird to me to try and explain Riot Grrls, because I didn't get the media filtered view, I got the "damn it, Sam, ask before you take my crap to your meeting!" view of living with multiple Grrls. Which means my image is also directly informed by my lingering desire to pop 'em in the jaws.


tina f. - Oct 02, 2003 9:31:21 am PDT #866 of 10000

but not Buffy - Buffy wanted to conform or be popular, even though she knew it would never happen.

Yes. As much as in RL I am the anti-Buffy, this is what I loved about her. Not riot grrrly at all. She wasn't a rebel. She just kicked ass. And did her hair.

And neither was Faith. Faith wasn't cool enough to be riot grrly - she listened to metal and wore black jeans. She was just straight up trashy.


P.M. Marc - Oct 02, 2003 9:32:27 am PDT #867 of 10000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Y'know, the reality of the Grrls was actually pretty close to the Blessed Wanna Be girls of S4.


DavidS - Oct 02, 2003 9:33:30 am PDT #868 of 10000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

David, I regret to inform you that neither Neal Stephenson nor Wm. Gibson is a grrl,

Yeah, but they wanted to be.

much less a riotous one. Do you mean by "riot grrl" the Buffy/Xena type, or do you mean like Lori Petty in Tank Girl (which is my meaning, and the only one I can think of), or both?

I meant punk-rock girl/ bike messenger culture / sorta dykey / tomboys.

I don't know if the Oughties are cohering, but I'm definitely seeing a shift to the Joan of Arc-etype.


Emily - Oct 02, 2003 9:36:29 am PDT #869 of 10000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

That's pretty much why, although I found the simultaneous poking fun at and glorification of spastic social-grace-lacking hackers mostly just irritating and stupid.

Throw in the just-us-folks snarking at 'intellectuals' in Cryptonomicon for me.


tina f. - Oct 02, 2003 9:36:29 am PDT #870 of 10000

It is interesting because so much of it matters where you come from. My image of "riot grrrls" is colored by growing up in Japan in the 80s - just because Japanese teenage girls IN Japan look as if they are coming out of a sci-fi movie. Their look is amazing. Their style is so creative. And it was all about the future and it was all about a true birth of their take on feminism at the time.

These images have nothing to do with the reality of the term, though, or what it meant in the 90s or ANYTHING. But I can't help it - it's always what I think of.


Nutty - Oct 02, 2003 9:40:02 am PDT #871 of 10000
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

I meant punk-rock girl/ bike messenger culture / sorta dykey / tomboys.

Yeah, see, where I went to college, the dykey/tomboyish thing was not of a cultural moment, and it didn't tend to lean in the punk-rock direction. And I still can't think of, say, a popular movie, or a TV show, that professed or exploited this archetype in such a way that it would be considered zeitgeist.

Antigovernment paranoia, I remember that as a fun mid-90s phenomenon. The (Creeped But) Capable Woman phenom rests basically on the shoulders of Jodie Foster and Gillian Anderson, AFAIK. Most of the rest of the 90s stuff professed above I buy into. But yeah, still scratching my head on the "riot grrl" thing.


Sean K - Oct 02, 2003 9:46:45 am PDT #872 of 10000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Because Y.T. in Snow Crash enjoyed her own rape.

Hmm... Yeah, I can see that. I'd forgotten about that scene.


Emily - Oct 02, 2003 9:48:31 am PDT #873 of 10000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I tend to think Lori Petty, Courtney Love, the morphing of skater girlfriend culture into girl skater culture, and (my apologies to Plei) Olympia.


DavidS - Oct 02, 2003 9:49:05 am PDT #874 of 10000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

And I still can't think of, say, a popular movie, or a TV show, that professed or exploited this archetype in such a way that it would be considered zeitgeist.

Oh, I was specifically referring to the girl bike messenger protagonists in Snow Crash and Virtual Light.

But yeah, still scratching my head on the "riot grrl" thing.

It was one of the many off-shoots of punk/indie culture. Spread through zines (back when they were prolific and mailed instead of websites). It was a specific philosophy that wed feminism and punk's Do-It-Yourself ethos. When it started to burble up into the mainstream, they took the interesting step of having a media-moratorium. They didn't want to be co-opted into the mainstream. So what did roll forward into the popular media were more general notions of female empowerment such as Buffy or the Spice Girls sloganeering.

Tank Girl would be another reflection of that character type.

As Ple notes, the reality was that it wound up also being a kind of self-righteous, patriarchal-culture-is-evil, vegan, PETA, recovered-memories-of-abuse, girl-victimhood-support-group, Ani Defranco is GOD, thang.

Jim (Eaton-Terry) was actually pretty close to the center of the movement in London.

Highpoint: Bikini Kill's "Rebel Girl" single as produced by Joan Jett. Low points: see above re: Vegan/Peta/Ani.