So glad you made the effort, Wolfram!

What Scrappy said.

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One thing I've noticed is that it's very easy for an "academic discussion" to read as cold and snotty. It's not intended to be read that way, but it is. It's nearly anti-monkey-grooming in its tone. Can't be helped. It's the nature of the (monkey) beast.
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Jon's code is showing, Jon's code is showing...

That doesn't sound like the board becoming less compassionate or more dismissive. That sounds like people not getting along, or people getting cranky because not everyone agrees with them. Which is, for better or worse, a side-effect of social interaction.

I'd concur with this. I used to get upset about people leaving (and god knows there are a bunch I miss) but you can't control these things. The board can't be all things to all people. There have been times when I wondered if it would hold together long enough to support another big F2F. That's not really a concern I'm having now.

Jon's code is showing, Jon's code is showing...

Hey, man, put that away...this is a mixed-company board.

Jon's code is showing, Jon's code is showing...

Eeeep!

and as I leave for 10 minute walk home:

> I also think a Newbie might come away with the assumption that there are some posters who are annoyed at and/or are holding grudges at other posters.

Yup'

this exchange should be dealt with. If this whole thing has been about posters not liking each other I might actually laugh and throw up at the same time.

We all don't get along, some of us actively dislike each other. we leave threads for it, we backchannel, we make faces and we are not nice all the time. But if someone started something like this towards me because we don't like each other, it is just beyond my ability to express as sad making.

And it has brought me to a fianl point. If being here is so frustrating and horrible and filled with powerful hostile posters, why on earth would people want to stay?

Thing about the board's congenial roots is that the board started on Table Talk, where things were much more open and likely to involve outright flames. TT was fun, and wasn't Usenet, but it wasn't a tiny little enclave with only sweet kind people, either. Anyone with a Salon membership could drop in, and many people did. Some stuck around, some left (I'm sure David and Betsy remember Hellish and Dr. Satan...).

If being here is so frustrating and horrible and filled with powerful hostile posters, why on earth would people want to stay?

For the jalapeno poppers!

Mmm...those are some damn good poppers.

I miss Dr. Satan.