1. The Stompies have had a lawspeak. They have said, even if it were to be discussed towards action, it cannot be discussed towards action until July. Therefore, by definition, the current discussion is wheel-spinning.

1A. Personally, I think foreseeable disruptiveness is the key to letting something drop, or trying to think up a compromise. The disruptiveness of this morning? Totally foreseeable. When it's not foreseeable, or harder to foresee, is the first time I'll be comfortable talking over the issue. Which may mean never, but it certainly means not right now.

2. The grandfather clause must be ratified or voted down before we turn into elderly people. It was seconded before Allyson's most recent proposal, so by rights it should be discussed/voted on first. Is Betsy (the original proposer) available to word the proposal?

3. I agree with Burrell that the consolidation is better talked over before any -- any -- expansion, which was why I was going to propose something Wednesday when I got back. If people are desperate to make a Tim exception, okay I can bend to that, but I really would like to make things, you know, threads that last and continue to matter, cooly thought-through, rather than created in the heat of the moment.

Revisiting in two months seems fair to me since that is the letter that was sent.

OTOH, I don't see the harm of letting a guy who wants in in and kicking his butt out again if he acts like a tool.

I hate to be the voice of doom-- but this really, really scares me. I wish we were a place where one or two people could just make a decision and not have us argue about it. But we aren't, and I have no idea how to resolve this.

Also, we decided on the warn, suspend, ban thing way back before the Pheonix was in existance.

What Plei said.

Also - what Cashmere said.

I think this issue is going to end badly, no matter how it ends. I think if we don't talk about it, people are going to be mad and leave. I think if we talk about it, people are going to be mad and leave. I think if we let him back, people are going to be mad and leave. I think if we never let him back, people are going to be mad and leave.

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I'm with Plei in the I-ended-up-enjoying-him corner. But the events around his membership were so damn devisive, and we've never recovered.

I resent that he's asking to come back. I resent that (if I'm understanding this correctly), the Stompies have asked him to wait, but Wolfram is (again, if I'm understanding correctly) agitating for him to be allowed back in, unbidden by Michael himself.

Wolfram, no matter what happens, I think this is going to suck. But I do think it might suck less, if you let M decide to make his own case to the Stompies, if he so desires. He chose not to explain himself to the community while he was still a member. When the Stompies offered him a chance to do so, he opted to deal with them privately and take his leave. Let him continue talking to them if he thinks he has reason to be allowed to make an end run around our 4 month time period.

An emergency has arisen at work which involves me having to bail someone out of jam, and it's going to take a lot of running around and paperwork and crap that I'm not happy about having to do.

Sorry for the delay in my official proposal on the Tim thread. I strongly believe that he deserves the honor, and will be here tonight to post it.

Again, apologies for the delay.

If he really does respect us then can accept the consequences of his actions.

Michael has accepted it. At least I assume he has since he didn't respond to the Stompies' email.

and

But I do think it might suck less, if you let M decide to make his own case to the Stompies, if he so desires.

Exactly. Wolfram -- Why didn't you ask Michael about the sitch before posting your social-capital-reducing plea?

I'm not trying to be mean, but Trudy I do see the harm in going through the whole "Warning" issuing thing with Micheal.

Because this time around it could easily be turned into: "well you didn't want to let him back anyway so it's a personal thing...he didn't really do anything wrong."

The Buffistas have been put through enough turmoil as it is because of this and I don't want to see us put through more.

THE FACT THAT A DISSENTING OPINION REDUCES SOCIAL-CAPITAL AROUND HERE SUCKS

And now we're all being yelled at. Lovely.

Wait---

We don't even know if he wants to come back? We're just going on what Wolfram has said?

I've been under the impression that Wolfram as speaking directly for Michael because he couldn't post here.