I kissed him, and I told him that I loved him. And I killed him.

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Bureaucracy 2: Like Sartre, Only Longer  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

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P.M. Marc - May 12, 2003 1:11:31 pm PDT #1801 of 10005
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

t temper class="snaps for a moment" Oh please, don't bring out the lurkers agree with me card.

Please? Because this is getting to be absurd.

You're being disagreed with, not freaking dumped on. t /temper

I find the cries of "dumped on" to be frankly a little insulting to those disagreeing with you.


Trudy Booth - May 12, 2003 1:14:05 pm PDT #1802 of 10005
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

The disagreeing isn't always exactly nice, PMM.

And saying "people with minority opinions step out of the discussions" is NOT the same things as "All your lurkers am belong to us".


P.M. Marc - May 12, 2003 1:15:55 pm PDT #1803 of 10005
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

The disagreeing isn't always nice on both sides, though.

And saying the same thing a hundred times only serves to make people cranky.

And saying "people with minority opinions step out of the discussions" is NOT the same things as "All your lurkers am belong to us".

Ain't too far off, though. It's a statement that can't be proven and gives the illusion of support. Show me the difference.


Steph L. - May 12, 2003 1:15:59 pm PDT #1804 of 10005
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I think that people who hold a minority position are going to feel "dumped on," but that's the definition of "minority" -- more people disagree with you than agree with you. It's a numbers thing.


Dana - May 12, 2003 1:19:37 pm PDT #1805 of 10005
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

And you know, everyone's in the minority at one time or another.

All I want for Christmas is for us to stop talking about this right now, based on what the admins said.


Trudy Booth - May 12, 2003 1:22:18 pm PDT #1806 of 10005
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

And saying the same thing a hundred times only serves to make people cranky.

In an ongoing discussion when you are trying to bring people over to your side of the matter that's pretty much your only option.

Ain't too far off, though. It's a statement that can't be proven and gives the illusion of support. Show me the difference.

I'm not trying to prove support. I'm saying that this form of discussion scares of dissenting opinion. Sometimes I DON'T agree with that dissention.


Wolfram - May 12, 2003 1:24:50 pm PDT #1807 of 10005
Visilurking

I retract the phrase dumped on and replace it with, disagreed with. And I'm not bringing up lurkers, there are folks who have posted on this issue in the past who tend to side with the minority here. I'm not "outing" them, you'll have to do your own homework on this one.

And saying the same thing a hundred times only serves to make people cranky.

Frankly it's impossible to carry on a meaningful discussion with many people without seeming to repeat yourself many times. I'm sorry that when I'm in the minority there are 10 Wolfram posts to everyone else's 1 post, but how do you suggest carrying on a multiple conversation when a lot of people are responding in different ways to each of your posts?


Steph L. - May 12, 2003 1:25:48 pm PDT #1808 of 10005
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Here's the thing -- and Trudy, please don't feel like this is directed at you; it's just my reply to anyone who thinks that banned posters should get a second chance:

Warn -- Warn(2) -- suspend -- ban IS the procedure that was approved by a majority of Buffistas. Not unanimous, but a majority.

I can sit and complain all day about how I really really REALLY want George W. Bush out of office, and I didn't vote for him, etc., etc.

But a majority did. So I have to live with it.

It's not a perfect comparison, but I think it works to illustrate the point.


Wolfram - May 12, 2003 1:32:29 pm PDT #1809 of 10005
Visilurking

Warn -- Warn(2) -- suspend -- ban IS the procedure that was approved by a majority of Buffistas. Not unanimous, but a majority.

At the risk of getting my ass handed to me for this - IIRC that procedure involved inviting the offender into B'cy to confront the allegations made against him.

The bannee in question never had that opportunity, and the banning came in large part because said bannee tried to get his say in and reregistered to that effect. Without rehashing all the stuff about his ban, you'd have to admit that a ban done through the voted in procedure is much more fair (which is why we came up with that procedure) whereas we could be a little more lenient with a ban that happened before that procedure.

Now please don't hand me my ass for that.


Trudy Booth - May 12, 2003 1:33:30 pm PDT #1810 of 10005
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Hey, if I could get together a recall and boot Bush I would.