Bester: Mal. Whaddya need two mechanics for? Mal: I really don't.

'Out Of Gas'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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Steph L. - Sep 19, 2025 8:05:49 am PDT #9351 of 9356
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

This timeline fucking sucks.

It both sucks and blows.

Week 2 of Tim's cancer treatment is done; 5 weeks to go! Earlier this week he noticed that food is starting to taste weird, so side effects are starting to creep in. He can still eat normally, which is great, so he's eating as healthy as he can and also still trying to add some pounds. He does have really minor nausea from the chemo that is easily controlled with ginger candy and/or ginger chews. The radiation oncologist said that the radiation would make Tim's neck look sunburned, and that happened this week. It's not painful, and Tim has topical stuff to use for that, so it's under control.

We're hoping Tim gets at least one more good week of being able to eat normally — the radiation oncologist said week 2 or 3 is when different side effects (sores in his mouth and/or throat, difficulty swallowing) might make it harder to eat normally. That said, since day 1 he's been doing the PT exercises for his swallowing muscles/throat/mouth in general; that doesn't mean he'll avoid all side effects, but it should definitely help. He also uses 2 different products that are meant to prevent/delay/minimize mouth sores — one is a supplemental drink that he takes 2 times a day, and the other is a mixture of baking soda, salt, and water that he rinses his mouth with after meals and at bedtime.

Things still feel surreally normal most days, because he goes to work after radiation in the morning, and because he's still eating normally and exercising and puttering around the house like always. I'm trying to appreciate these days, because the side effects are definitely coming. But still: cancer-free by Halloween! And, as always, fuck cancer.


Laura - Sep 19, 2025 8:51:12 am PDT #9352 of 9356
Our wings are not tired.

May the coming weeks continue with minimal discomfort. Cancer-free by Halloween is indeed an excellent destination.

My sister and I went to the gym as usual this morning. We pulled up to the front door. Powered off the car and sat there and sighed. She then asked if maybe we should go out to breakfast instead. So we did. I have no regrets.


Trudy Booth - Sep 19, 2025 9:59:14 am PDT #9353 of 9356
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Had lunch with my parents and didn't make the news-- that's something.

We'll take it! Though, honestly, if you go the other route... we'll take that too!


DavidS - Sep 19, 2025 10:03:43 am PDT #9354 of 9356
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

This timeline fucking sucks.

Can confirm.

However, the berries in my cereal this morning were especially delectable and I'm all about the the low-stakes win.

Pilates at noon, and another appointment at 2, and then I'm into my weekend.

Wishing Tim all the pain-ease and smooth sailing.


erikaj - Sep 19, 2025 10:21:02 am PDT #9355 of 9356
Always Anti-fascist!

I could see my rampage getting derailed because my manifesto runs long and I'm debating whether to cut from the bottom, journalism style, Trudy.


Trudy Booth - Sep 19, 2025 11:59:52 am PDT #9356 of 9356
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Ha!


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