So there is something I can do, besides scream like a woman?

Wesley ,'Chosen'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - May 30, 2024 7:44:50 am PDT #831 of 2742
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I keep coming back to Madeleine L'Engle's A Wrinkle in Time as the book to hand out. A bit young for some, perhaps, but it has some very good messages about self-acceptance and family.


meara - May 30, 2024 8:15:23 am PDT #832 of 2742

wtf. Why did my alarm not go off this morning?? I overslept by an hour! And not in a really good sleep way, I was grinding my teeth and having weird stress dreams. (Luckily my alarm normally goes off 90 minutes before I am supposed to start work and I didn’t have any early meetings, but still!) I don’t think I somehow turned it off in my sleep but not sure why it wouldn’t go off!

And now I don’t want to start work because I’ve only been awake a few minutes.

But yay new doggo, boo insomnia.


JenP - May 30, 2024 11:00:17 am PDT #833 of 2742

Ugh, rough start to the morning, meara. Hate that!

I bought some hair salon alligator clips a month ago -- the kind they use to section hair and hold it out of the way -- because I bought one of those effing FB blowy curling things (it actually works well, but that's not my point).

Those clips are the BEST things I've ever tried for holding a casual twist/bun all day with no pain or slippage! So good, I didn't care that they have some logo printed in them and are so obviously salon clips.

Finally occurred to me that someone probably sells decorative ones. Duh. Just ordered some.


erikaj - May 30, 2024 11:44:17 am PDT #834 of 2742
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

I loved that book Beverly.


Atropa - May 30, 2024 11:49:37 am PDT #835 of 2742
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

What book would you force on random people if you could?

Either The Night Circus or Every Heart a Doorway.

If the Wayward Children series ( Every Heart a Doorway is the first of it) had existed when I was a child/preteen, I would have felt Very Seen. As it is, there are specific books from the series that still make me feel Very Seen.


Atropa - May 30, 2024 11:52:03 am PDT #836 of 2742
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

ION: I ended up with a new manager late last year; she's someone I've worked with before, and a great person. But I am a little worried that because of her somewhat narrow focus on only the specific pillar she's in, I'm going to have to put a LOT more work in on my "Give Jilli a Promotion!" doc. Because my focus and team management extends to five separate software pillars, and she (and her manager) don't quite grasp what's involved with that.


Steph L. - May 30, 2024 11:55:26 am PDT #837 of 2742
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

What book would you force on random people if you could?

I wouldn't, only because I hate when people who I already know foist a book on me unasked-for and say "Read this!!"* So I really wouldn't read a book that a random person forced on me. Therefore, if I wouldn't take a book from a stranger, I wouldn't give a book to a stranger. (I realize I am taking this very literally and possibly too seriously, but hey. If we're talking Give Book To A Stranger Whose Tastes I Don't Know At All, my answer is nah.)

*(Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, I see you.)


Atropa - May 30, 2024 12:04:51 pm PDT #838 of 2742
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

. *(Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, I see you.)

I didn't need that repressed memory unlocked, Tep.


JenP - May 30, 2024 12:09:06 pm PDT #839 of 2742

(Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, I see you.)

Ha!


Steph L. - May 30, 2024 12:15:39 pm PDT #840 of 2742
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I didn't need that repressed memory unlocked, Tep.

I wish I could go back in time and tell 21-year-old me "If a dude harangues you to read this so you can 'understand him,' just go find someone else," because WOW, was that dude (and that book) a waste of time and energy.