Tact is just not saying true stuff. I'll pass.

Cordelia ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

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Jessica - Jul 04, 2025 12:07:57 pm PDT #8130 of 8138
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Ethan is still recovering from his foot surgery so we would have stayed home regardless (there are no good fireworks options near us that wouldn't require a long walk) but also I have never in my life felt less like celebrating America than this fucking year.

So instead I am lounging around in a "ban the fascists / save the books" shirt playing online Wingspan on my phone while intermittently helping Dylan fill in all his pre-college paperwork. I could be doing yardwork (the weeds have TAKEN OVER my front yard garden and are beginning to attack the house) but I've got freshly painted nails and a new dye job I don't want to spoil, so I'm sticking to the couch.


erikaj - Jul 04, 2025 12:18:46 pm PDT #8131 of 8138
Always Anti-fascist!

This is going to end up a weekend I want a weekend from if I end up doing all the webinars and phonebanks.


brenda m - Jul 04, 2025 12:30:29 pm PDT #8132 of 8138
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I have now added on a head spa treatment and a pedicure to my weekend of denial. Later I am going to a friend’s for a get together on her rooftop to watch the neighborhood fireworks. If it’s as hot as I think it will be I may not stay too long. H had heatstroke last week and is still a bit shaky so there’s an out.

What I really want to do is skip it and go see Sinners tonight. But I missed her birthday party a month ago so I need to do some showing up.

I too am celebrating my new haircut. I’ll throw a couple of snaps in the FB group.


aurelia - Jul 04, 2025 1:46:37 pm PDT #8133 of 8138
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Where did you get that tee, Jessica?

H had heatstroke last week

Oh no! She should absolutely take it easy. I should try to see Sinners this weekend.

Today I've signed up for more postcarding and have started the deep clean of my apartment. I finished scrubbing the bathroom floor and baseboards and the hallway baseboards. I'm taking a break now, but I'd like to declutter the kitchen and get the baseboards in there done today.


Jessica - Jul 04, 2025 4:03:36 pm PDT #8134 of 8138
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Aurelia, this is the site - [link]


erikaj - Jul 04, 2025 4:06:52 pm PDT #8135 of 8138
Always Anti-fascist!

Postcards are great, but not as my part. I need too much help to make it happen.


aurelia - Jul 04, 2025 4:29:37 pm PDT #8136 of 8138
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

And I'm not good on the phone. I'm glad you can fill that role.

Thanks, Jessica.


Sheryl - Jul 04, 2025 5:51:48 pm PDT #8137 of 8138
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm sorry, Epic.

Mr S is here for two nights. He and Gary may be going to the local fireworks, but with the boy being so unfocused that may not happen. I'm staying home either way.


Steph L. - Jul 04, 2025 8:04:11 pm PDT #8138 of 8138
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I don't regret skipping the parade (I took a nap to sleep off the end of the migraine), and going to Tim's brother and SiL's house did improve my mood. The great-nieces and great-nephew are hilarious and always entertaining.

Now that we're back home, our entire neighborhood smells like smoke and the backyard fireworks are non-stop. The cat is very unhappy.


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