Haven't you killed me enough for one day?

Mal ,'War Stories'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - May 09, 2025 5:26:04 pm PDT #7132 of 7295
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I am working to get back into my good habits but also am right now in an Escalade on my way to a ridiculously expensive dinner but that is also something of a Chicago bucket list item. To wit, a 20th anniversary throwback Alinea dinner where they are doing their year 1 menus when they burst on the scene and blew everyone’s minds.

I have justified the [seriously ridiculous] cost by using the gift card I got last year from my health insurance for jumping through all their various hoops, which very nearly covers it.

[What? I can have layers. At least the portions will be small.]

I’m also paying half my sister’s costs because be real. So it’s still a splurge but one I’m good with.


brenda m - May 09, 2025 5:27:20 pm PDT #7133 of 7295
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I also did just sign up for one of those dance workout apps. Did half a workout yesterday before my arms got too tired. But I think it’ll be fun!


Laura - May 09, 2025 6:30:35 pm PDT #7134 of 7295
Our wings are not tired.

That sounds awesome, Brenda. We want details on the menu! My crab legs were so tasty. The best/worst part was it took over 2 hours to eat them. So much work, but such leisurely delight!

I also did just sign up for one of those dance workout apps.

I generally have music in my ears while working out, so I tend to dance around between tasks. Like no one is watching, but there are indeed cameras in the gym, so someone could be watching. Do I care? The answer would be no. I am almost always the only one in the gym both in my building and the gym I go to up north. I'm not particularly self-conscious, but being alone or just with my sister is really nice.


brenda m - May 09, 2025 7:37:02 pm PDT #7135 of 7295
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I was being very judged by the dog. But I can live with that.

The dinner is 12 courses. Holy. A little over halfway and it is amazeballs. Pictures and descriptions to follow.


JenP - May 09, 2025 8:58:18 pm PDT #7136 of 7295

Woot, yay, Brenda! Can't wait for deets.


Calli - May 10, 2025 4:06:13 am PDT #7137 of 7295
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

All right, show of hands:

[raises hand]

Yay fancy dinners and workouts! I have a work day scheduled at my community garden today. My sister’s boat went in the water, so I’m going to drive to her marina tomorrow and pretend to be a lady of boating leisure for the day.


DavidS - May 10, 2025 9:13:54 am PDT #7138 of 7295
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

My sister’s boat went in the water, so I’m going to drive to her marina tomorrow and pretend to be a lady of boating leisure for the day.

A day well spent!

I got out of the house by 7:30 this mornng to walk the Panhandle and get coffee and a blueberry Cutie Pie (aka, hand pie) for breakfast. Not a run but good steps banked before 9am.

One of my FB friends that has been messaging with me about her incipient hopes for motherhood and has shared a lost pregnancy with me, told me this morning that she gave birth to her baby daughter. She and her husband are aglow with new parenthood and I'm very happy for her and baby Clara Louise (yes, she's a silent film fan).

Matilda did a sleepover at her friend Liv's house, so it's just me and the pigs this morning and they're happily monching away on parsley and carrots.


Steph L. - May 10, 2025 11:20:25 am PDT #7139 of 7295
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I'm friends on Facebook with 2 people from grade school, and one of them messaged me to tell me she's going to organize a 40-year reunion for our class (St. B, 8th-grade class of 1985, represent). And half of me wants to flee screaming and the other half is a trash goblin that lives for drama and absolutely wants to go. I'm still not sure which half is going to win.


DavidS - May 10, 2025 11:56:37 am PDT #7140 of 7295
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm still not sure which half is going to win.

Go Trash Goblin!


Atropa - May 10, 2025 12:42:50 pm PDT #7141 of 7295
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I am going to spend my entire weekend flopped on the couch watching TV and doing hand sewing. The past two weeks for work have been crazy stressful; add in the near constant anxiety insomnia and nightmares and I am WIPED OUT.

I'm bumping up to 1.0 (the actual "therapeutic" dose) of Wegovy today, and I'm a little apprehensive. I haven't had any of the terrible side effects so far, but I live in a state of low-level anxiety all the time now, so hey! My brain will look for more things to freak out about.