Oh, no, oh, no! Spontaneous poetic exclamations. Lord, spare me college boys in love.

Dr. Walsh ,'Potential'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Mar 07, 2025 12:28:31 pm PST #5960 of 6013
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Movers come tomorrow to drop off our stuff at the house. Naturally, we both have covid.


-t - Mar 07, 2025 12:50:39 pm PST #5961 of 6013
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh good lord, Dana. I'm sorry. I hope other than that the physical moving goes smoothly!

I'm going to a rally tomorrow with Mom. Don't really know what to expect - it's an hour at a coffee shop downtown in her little city and hasn't really specified anything except it's for International Women's Day. Maybe a march? There's city hall and a county courthouse nearby. IDK. Wearing comfy shoes, not making a sign or anything.


Laura - Mar 07, 2025 1:15:32 pm PST #5962 of 6013
Our wings are not tired.

Oh no, Dana!!! That is awful timing. I hope it is very mild for both of you. Unpack only the absolute necessities.

The East Broward Dems have been holding rallies every Saturday. Maybe tomorrow I'll go?


JenP - Mar 07, 2025 3:19:13 pm PST #5963 of 6013

Good grief, Dana. I don't even know what. Sending you feel better soon and may it be mild vibes... and what Laura said.


Laura - Mar 07, 2025 4:31:00 pm PST #5964 of 6013
Our wings are not tired.

Okay, I just read the autopsy info from Gene Hackman and his wife. It is horrifying. People! Please always have others you check in with daily. Check on each other. The idea that they were in such poor condition and no one knew is so very sad.


DavidS - Mar 07, 2025 4:38:04 pm PST #5965 of 6013
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

It is horrifying.

Seriously. She died a week before him, and he wandered around in an Alzheimer's daze alone until his heart gave out. Also the dog that died in the crate must have starved to death while the other two free ranged and scrounged.


brenda m - Mar 07, 2025 4:38:20 pm PST #5966 of 6013
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

It’s just so awful.


-t - Mar 07, 2025 5:11:38 pm PST #5967 of 6013
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

So sad and terrible


Sophia Brooks - Mar 07, 2025 5:46:41 pm PST #5968 of 6013
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I posted on Facebook, but that is horrifying and could totally happen to me OR my mother OR my uncle OR my aunt. We are all old and live alone (but they are obviously older than I am) We only check in once a week. I was doing daily during COVID, and then fell off. I am much more likely to get a welfare check because I live in a double, so I imagine the gentleman in the downstairs apartment would eventually notice at least the smell! I did get texts from folks checking in on me because I was working from home during our big snow event because I am a walker, public transportation taker etc, and it was too treacherous to navigate. They were afraid I would fall on the uncleared sidewalk, and frankly so was I!


Laura - Mar 08, 2025 6:22:34 am PST #5969 of 6013
Our wings are not tired.

My brother lives with his ex-wife, a son, and a granddaughter. He falls from time to time so I am grateful there are people around to help. My sisters each live alone. I told them both yesterday that I better see a text or message from them at least once a day! We do regularly send each other editorial cartoons, or reels, or other silliness. I encouraged them to step it up and send more. I hate the phone but text away or send me emails.

Over the summer one of our book club members in Otter Lake didn't answer her phone when my sister called to verify that she was picking her up to go to the meeting. Mona was concerned and went to check on her. Her doors were locked so she called my nephew who broke in and found her alive, but she had fallen in the bathroom and was severely dehydrated. She has lived in a nursing home since which is appropriate, but she was such an independent woman that it is hard. If it weren't for book club it could have been too late when she was missed.

It is too easy to imagine this happening to ourselves or one of our loved ones, so this story hits hard.

That said, I need to get some stuff done this week. Have to finish all the accounting crap, my house is a disaster, I haven't exercised, and I have a couple trips coming up. A friend is going to house sit and take care of the animals, so at least I got that arranged. And now the dog is staring at me and saying I need to get my ass in gear and take him to the park. (I do miss a back yard)