Dawn: I thought you were adequate. Giles: And the accolades keep pouring in. I'd best take my leave before my head swells any larger. Good night.

'First Date'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sophia Brooks - Feb 26, 2025 7:24:19 pm PST #5760 of 7002
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I know Shir is not seeing messages. but I want to put love to Shir and her family out in the world.

I learned this morning that an important mentor from my small town (the mom of a friend, but we had a separate relationship in my twenties, founding a community theatre together) passed away. She was on hospice, but still heart-wrenching. Her son, who was a misfit kid like me, was killed in a tragic accident sort of caused by him being fairly poorly treated and suspended for things that would today look like being neurodivergent when he was in 6th grade and I was in 8th. She was the misfit kid mentor in the late 80's early nineties- she took folks to Rocky Horror, hosted Dungeons and Dragons, and, yes, helped me set up a non-profit 501 (3) c when I was 19 to put on Godspell with my friends. Every nerd, neurodivergent, LGBTQ+ and other weirdo in my town was supported by her. She participated in local government She was also literally the only other mother my mom ever connected with in our whole town and my mom is a little older than she was, so I don;t want to tell my mom. As I was checking for more info about that on Facebook, I came across the Michelle Trachtenberg news. So, just a depressing day all around.

Funny story- Joanne (the late mentor) kept asking for her baby in the hospital, and her daughter Melyssa (my friend) had to keep explaining to the nurses that it wasn't her, it was her cat. Melyssa was able to find a good home for the cat with a friend, as Melyssa is in a non-cat apartment, so all is well with Pyewhacket, a beautiful tortie.


JenP - Feb 27, 2025 5:07:59 am PST #5761 of 7002

I'm sorry for your loss, Sophia... what a wonderful woman.


lisah - Feb 27, 2025 5:16:21 am PST #5762 of 7002
Punishingly Intricate

I’m so sorry for your loss, Sophia. And the loss to your community of such a lovely person.


-t - Feb 27, 2025 6:10:10 am PST #5763 of 7002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I’m sorry for your loss, Sophia. Thank you for sharing the memories. She sounds wonderful.


Laura - Feb 27, 2025 6:19:37 am PST #5764 of 7002
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry for your loss, Sophia. It is lovely that you were part of each other's lives.


Steph L. - Feb 27, 2025 7:30:47 am PST #5765 of 7002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Sophia, your mentor sounds absolutely lovely. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Last week I caught a cold, which is annoying but comparatively easy to deal with (hey, at least it's not bird flu) — until both ears started hurting a couple of days ago. They're pretty painful (actually my right ear is unbearably painful when I blow my nose), so I'm assuming both ears are infected. I'm going to the doctor in a little bit for (I assume) antibiotics.

The middle ear is a very small space to cause so much pain! I assume RFK Jr won't let me have Ear Morphine for the pain.


Laura - Feb 27, 2025 7:43:52 am PST #5766 of 7002
Our wings are not tired.

Teppy, I've been thinking of you and the other Ohioistas while my cousins are staying with me this week. They have lived in Enon most of their lives. We have been comparing the horrors of Florida and Ohio governments. So far neither of them is winning or losing the competition, although both seem to want to top the other.


msbelle - Feb 27, 2025 8:11:58 am PST #5767 of 7002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I am checked out at the work. The last two days I've moved beyond work to rule. I’m doing the least.


-t - Feb 27, 2025 8:48:25 am PST #5768 of 7002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm meeting the new CEO today (along with everyone else (except that the Marketing department all seems to be offsite) there's a pizza lunch meet and greet). All our company specific changes are not, I think, tied to the larger everything but that it is happening at the same time feels very weird


Sophia Brooks - Feb 27, 2025 8:49:30 am PST #5769 of 7002
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

The middle ear is a very small space to cause so much pain! I assume RFK Jr won't let me have Ear Morphine for the pain.
The ear and the teeth are the worst. I also hope he lets me keep getting citalopram.

The other thing I was reflecting on with my mentor was how she did just get involved with local government even though it was a very conservative place. But she did the work. She was on the zoning board and the school board. She also stealth infiltrated the local church, because she ran youth group and then youth group went to Rocky Horror. But you could tell your parents you were going to a church sponsored event.