Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Feb 19, 2025 1:22:38 pm PST #5592 of 5687

Have you decided what you’ll get instead, Laura?

Aurelia I feel ya.


Hil R. - Feb 19, 2025 3:49:11 pm PST #5593 of 5687
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I checked with my cousin's wife, and they did receive all the presents, so that's one thing I can stop worrying about.


Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 19, 2025 4:15:03 pm PST #5594 of 5687
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

They just... didn't think the step-daughter's was worth sending a thank-you for as she's not related to you by blood? If anything I'd say making sure to include her is *more* deserving of thanks!


Laura - Feb 19, 2025 4:43:32 pm PST #5595 of 5687
Our wings are not tired.

Went to bed earlier, got up earlier, and went running by 8:30. So I'm already feeling fairly productive.

It makes such a difference when you exercise first thing in the morning. All day you feel like you are accomplished.

Have you decided what you’ll get instead, Laura?

I've looked at the BMW and Mercedes. The BMW had a stupid looking huge front end which seemed silly to me for a car without an engine. I liked the interior, but just didn't care for the overall look. The Mercedes was super nice but I have one HUGE hurdle. I love the summons feature of my Tesla. When I am parked in a tight spot I just pull out my phone and pull out the car so I can open the doors. In theory I might be able to do this with the Mercedes but I need more research as the internet claims only Tesla does this. I don't use summons every day, but when I want/need it there is no substitute. I park in a condo garage and the fit it tight at times.

My son calls my car a 'swasticar' and I can't help but feel the same. I just have to do some more research on workarounds to my features. Mercedes doesn't have a dog mode for the climate! You have to jump through hoops to keep the climate on.

eta: USED Mercedes, because they drop 60% when they leave the lot. The one I looked at today was a 2023 in Miami with only 4024 miles on it.


meara - Feb 19, 2025 4:53:56 pm PST #5596 of 5687

Oh dog mode is the one reason I would want a Tesla! But Rivian has it too so maybe I would get that (maybe by the next time I’m buying a car it’ll be more!)


Steph L. - Feb 19, 2025 4:57:17 pm PST #5597 of 5687
I look more rad than Lutheranism

But Rivian has it too

I am a simple gal, here to say: I love Rivian's headlights.


Calli - Feb 19, 2025 5:29:41 pm PST #5598 of 5687
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My brother in law, a gear head whose first job was with GM, really likes the Rivian. He can’t justify the price for what he needs in a car, but if money was no object he’d probably have one. Happy car hunting, Laura!

Anxiety~ma for, um, entirely too many of us. My department hasn’t had any direct layoffs yet, but today we got word that no more travel would be authorized (we usually do a lot of conferences) and our job openings would not be filled until further notice. So there are official concerns.

I read that Trusk (or do I mean Mump? Whatever we’re calling the co-presidents) have set their sights on the Pentagon, with 8% budget cuts per year over the next four years. Not that I don’t think there are some military contractors that could use a review, but the security implications of Musk and his Traitor Tots tearing through the Pentagon servers are not comforting.


meara - Feb 19, 2025 5:34:23 pm PST #5599 of 5687

Yeah, I fully support cutting a lot of military spending but have zero faith that whatever they cut will actually be what SHOULD be cut

My friends have a Rivian, and it's very cool, but I think it's a bit more car than I need.


brenda m - Feb 19, 2025 5:38:37 pm PST #5600 of 5687
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh dog mode is the one reason I would want a Tesla! But Rivian has it too so maybe I would get that (maybe by the next time I’m buying a car it’ll be more!)

I use my remote starter occasionally for this purpose. It works well for a short run into a store or when I can keep a close eye of the time because you have to reset it every 10 or 15 minutes. The key fob beeps to let you know if you’re paying attention


Gudanov - Feb 19, 2025 6:35:25 pm PST #5601 of 5687
Coding and Sleeping

When I am parked in a tight spot I just pull out my phone and pull out the car so I can open the doors. In theory I might be able to do this with the Mercedes but I need more research as the internet claims only Tesla does this.

I think Kia/Hyundai do that too.