Bye, now. Have good sex.

Kaylee ,'Jaynestown'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Feb 07, 2025 9:20:22 am PST #5274 of 5790

Squirrels in the attic would be bad, I vote ghost also. Or unseasonal Santa’s reindeer on the roof though that runs the risk of roof damage I suppose.

I woke up and started work and walked into a bit of a shitstorm. One country’s team members have been whining and complaining a lot. And some of it is them being complainers but one thing we didn’t disagree with them on but had to say “listen, that’s not something the client has agreed to, even if we think that’s short sighted, so we have to follow what they agreed to until it is a problem we can justify”. And they tried to say an earlier problem was justifying and we said no, that wasn’t it because they hadn’t followed the process. Have been going back and forth this week…and today they pulled a problem and tried to follow the expected process and (not at all shocking) it didn’t work. So now it’s a problem because it didn’t work, the client is mad because their own process didn’t work, and the team is feeling justified in the earlier issue (even though that one didn’t go through the broken process). They weren’t right before, but they are now, and we aren’t surprised, but that still doesn’t mean they were right last time? And yet, not surprised. It’s all a pain and now we have to go through a whole justification process and nobody wants to admit fault. But it all feels so minor compared to the fall of our government??

Also kicking someone out of their home on 3 hours notice after firing them for being a woman is so this administration. Jesus.


brenda m - Feb 07, 2025 9:57:54 am PST #5275 of 5790
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Taking a brief tea break before heading out to dinner at the Swan before the Globe.

Extravagant tea box has been acquired, after confirming it is not available for shipping to the US so really what choice did I have? But seriously, this is a box that will be around for years and years I expect.

Link for the curious: [link]

In the meantime have been eating my way across London. 14 Hills last night, Hawkmoor today, and now the Swan.


JenP - Feb 07, 2025 10:06:36 am PST #5276 of 5790

That's lovely, Brenda -- the top is beautiful!


Steph L. - Feb 07, 2025 10:30:37 am PST #5277 of 5790
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Love the box! I would have bought it, too.


EpicTangent - Feb 07, 2025 11:00:11 am PST #5278 of 5790
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

So pretty, brenda! Not a surprise that you couldn't resist!


Emily - Feb 07, 2025 11:42:09 am PST #5279 of 5790
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

brenda, looks lovely!

I also am working my way up to calling my reps, but I did send an email to the only Republican who theoretically represents me, and actually got a reply today directly addressing my concern! I mean, he said Musk has a high security clearance, the president can appoint whomever he wants, and anyway our private data is totally safe! But it looks like he's also heard enough concern about it to have a form letter ready for this particular concern. I think that's a good sign.

My mission today is to work myself up enough about USAID to call.

My current employer is one of those big-endowment schools, but therefore also one with fairly conservative rich donors, so I have been wondering how this was going to play out, but the Arts & Sciences dean yesterday addressed fac&staff and said good things. Including that people whose grants are affected will be supported. Good intentions and all that, of course... but I was cheered.

ETA: I've had Chappell Roan songs stuck in my head for DAYS and then went and listened to one Sabrina Carpenter song and now THAT's stuck. Seriously. Brain. The lyrics are punchy, but there's a limit.


dcp - Feb 07, 2025 11:51:28 am PST #5280 of 5790
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I just got a notification of an offer to change my next nephology appointment, from April 3rd to...11 minutes from now.

Funny! But no, thanks.


JenP - Feb 07, 2025 12:00:53 pm PST #5281 of 5790

Coming out of colonoscopy. All good. Anesthesia is awesome! Feeling fab. Thought I'd share.


Steph L. - Feb 07, 2025 12:35:38 pm PST #5282 of 5790
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Okay, there are Nazis dressed in all black waving Nazi flags on an overpass of I-75 about 12 miles north of downtown Cincinnati (so, well within what's considered "greater Cincinnati"). (Hil, flea, and anyone else who knows or cares about Cincinnati neighborhoods, it's Lockland/Evendale.)

God damn.


DavidS - Feb 07, 2025 12:52:21 pm PST #5283 of 5790
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

ETA: I've had Chappell Roan songs stuck in my head for DAYS and then went and listened to one Sabrina Carpenter song and now THAT's stuck. Seriously. Brain. The lyrics are punchy, but there's a limit.

But have you heard Sabrina Carpenter covering Chappell Roan? [link]

Okay, there are Nazis dressed in all black waving Nazi flags on an overpass of I-75 about 12 miles north of downtown Cincinnati (so, well within what's considered "greater Cincinnati").

Ohio is so different now from when I went to college there. It used to be such a swing state with a strong union base. Now, it's way more Kentucky, Indiana, West Virginia. It's dead red and has gotten to be such a hotbed for Aryan/Nazi activity.

One of the reasons I never considered having Matilda apply to Kenyon.