I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Feb 01, 2025 3:28:55 pm PST #5060 of 5074
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

brenda, your trip sounds fantastic! And with people you enjoy as well. I'm so glad you get some extra time there.

Otter cafe beats stroller owls

The beautiful thing is, they apparently coexist without strife

It's a wonderland of small predators! I don't know how I missed going to fox island while I was here.

BABY PIG CAFE!!!!

The piglets were cute with their bristles and waggy tails and snoots and little trot.

I enjoyed the otters more, though, I have to say.

Had a great lunch visit with newish friend, and we made plans to get together before we left so we wouldn't wait eight months again, ha! Plus, we met in a playwriting class and then ended up in the same acting class and totally hit it off, so we are going to be writing accountability partners.

I love that for you! And sj's new lunch companion too. It's tricky making new friends as we get older.

Today's my last day in Japan, and I'm in no flurry or hurry to go do something I'm afraid I've missed. Rather I'm probably just going to go to my favorite places, and get some travel gifts out of the capsule toy machines.

Back in November I bought tix for a sketchfest event where Peaches Christ (local drag legend) would be interviewing Tim Curry live. Then belatedly realized I'd be in Japan for the event (which is tonight).

So then I thought, well I'll give the tickets to Nicole who's housesitting for me, as she's a gender-blurry gal in a drag king troupe who would appreciate that. But I couldn't find the tickets in my email or my phone, and didn't have time to deal with the box office before I left.

But just like magic I got a prompting email from Sketchfest that said, "Hey, your event is coming up. Here's your tickets!" And I was able to transfer them to her, and she's going tonight.


-t - Feb 01, 2025 3:44:44 pm PST #5061 of 5074
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hooray for Nicole getting to use your tickets!


erikaj - Feb 01, 2025 4:13:03 pm PST #5062 of 5074
Always Anti-fascist!

yeah, that's pretty cool. wish I could travel more.


JenP - Feb 01, 2025 4:14:07 pm PST #5063 of 5074

That worked out nicely, then!


Calli - Feb 01, 2025 4:17:23 pm PST #5064 of 5074
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad the tickets worked out, Hec. Have a safe trip back tomorrow.

Brenda, I hope you enjoy the play. Cymbeline is one I haven’t seen live.

What are everyone else’s plans for the weekend?

Today I went to Detroit’s Eastern Market with my sister and BiL, where I discovered there’s a wine maker in Ypsilanti. I wonder if Aimee knows. Afterwards we went to the Detroit boat show where I saw a waterskiing squirrel. And a lot of boats. But the squirrel is what I’ll probably remember this time next week. Tomorrow I’m going to church with my sister, meeting up with the cat sitter to show her the setup, and then picking up a book for a new-to-me book group. It’s part my effort to meet people who aren’t related to me.


brenda m - Feb 01, 2025 4:29:29 pm PST #5065 of 5074
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Newish friends! New book club! These are wonderful things that I need to do more of.

I am sat in the (very extremely nice) United club and trying not to eat or drink too much before my flight, where they will also be plying me with fine food and drink. (I’m having the cod.) Flight leaves at 9 PM so I’m hopeful I will actually manage to get some sleep (and I have a very mild gummy in my pocket to help that along).

Land at 11 head to my hotel, and figure out what to do from there. The Turner Prize finalists are on display at the Tate so that is a must, and right near the hotel. Or i may venture further out, depending.

Monday I’m on my own and then Tuesday it’s a full swing of meetings until Friday noon. My two presentations are Thursday so I’ll have time to prepare.

My boss wants to go to the Tate so i could do that with her Saturday. I honestly prefer some museums on my own but we’ll see.

It’s very nice to be off on an adventure!


Susan W. - Feb 01, 2025 4:47:18 pm PST #5066 of 5074
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

What are everyone else’s plans for the weekend?

Today I tried on new running shoes at the nice store (Super Jock 'N Jill on Greenlake, for the localistas) and found a pair I liked, but I was looking for a dark color, which they didn't have in my size, so they're special ordering. Which is part of why they're such a nice store--they had me try on five different shoes in four different brands, go out and run back and forth on the sidewalk in them, and then sort of gently nudged me to think in terms of most comfortable shoe in the color I wanted even if I had to wait a week or so for it. Then I did altar guild setup and dropped off food bank donations at church. Tomorrow is the church's annual meeting, which means that as of ~noon my three-year term on the vestry will be over AT LAST.

Oh, and I'm going to do some writing and also look at how well I did on my personal goals in January and make plans for February. (Since my main New Year's resolution was to be better at restarting things whenever life derails me and I stop writing/running/etc.)


JenP - Feb 01, 2025 4:55:43 pm PST #5067 of 5074

Yay, adventures! Japan is ending (well, for David, not for Matilda), and London is beginning -- y'all are doing a good job providing continuous vicarious travel thrills -- keep it up!


Susan W. - Feb 01, 2025 5:05:10 pm PST #5068 of 5074
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I'm deeply enjoying all the vicarious travel!


brenda m - Feb 01, 2025 5:14:25 pm PST #5069 of 5074
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

MICWINTW (Most Interesting Co-worker in the World) told me he is re-reading (because of course) Cymbeline on the flight over.

Challenge accepted. Downloading from the Folger now.