See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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meara - Jan 31, 2025 5:46:47 pm PST #5034 of 5042

Brenda can you access if you’re traveling business class on miles? Or no? Because I’d think you have enough miles to take a nice trip! But also booooo.


Cass - Jan 31, 2025 5:50:24 pm PST #5035 of 5042
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Which very nearly IS a diamond shoes too tight problem.

Let's celebrate the good things.


Steph L. - Jan 31, 2025 5:51:05 pm PST #5036 of 5042
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I am choosing to be salty about the fact that the Polaris lounge at O’Hare is closed for remodeling

Oh, that is a sweet lounge.

so I have to have my preflight free drinks in the chump lounge. (AKA the regular United Club.)

Stay strong! You can survive the chump lounge!


EpicTangent - Jan 31, 2025 5:59:19 pm PST #5037 of 5042
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I think at least once I got booted for bleeding too slow

This was threatened to me once. When I confirmed they could neither use the less-than-sufficient amount of blood or return it to me if I let them stop then, I had it keep running and, by sheer force of will (and/or squeezing the stress ball thingy fast) finished in the allotted time. They also recommended hydration to avoid the problem in future.

sj, I'm a little late to the party, but you are sweet and smart and made of awesome. Any person who wouldn't want to be your friend is probably not that bright and not worth the bother.

So glad your new "roommate" is working out so well, Cass.

Otter cafe beats stroller owls.

A high bar, indeed!

Much job~ma to all of you in newly precarious situations. It's sucks so much.

It's so good to hear that Matilda is doing so well. Like Laura said, I still think of my mom and wish I could share things with her, and I was presumably much better equipped to handle the loss at 46 than Matilda at 16. I hope she really gets a lot out of this amazing experience.

I had a "regular" doctor appointment today, optometrist. Thankfully, my eyes seem to have settled back down after the huge drop they took after my hyperbaric chamber treatments. Even though I didn't really need them since my Rx hasn't changed, I went ahead and ordered new glasses - figured I might as well get value out of my vision insurance. By some miracle I managed to find frames I really liked for $159 - of which my insurance covers $150. I decided to give transitionals a try this time. I've always avoided them because I remember that friends in HS who had them pretty much always had some degree of dark lenses. But I have been assured that the technology has come a long way since 1988. We shall see.


brenda m - Jan 31, 2025 6:07:29 pm PST #5038 of 5042
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Brenda can you access if you’re traveling business class on miles?

Not domestically I don’t think.

My travel is nearly what it was back in the day because I’m mostly managing teams now (who are doing all the pursuit traveling).

And I am in fact delighted that I’m in a position to take this trip at all. But I was a little annoyed when that notification popped up.

Though oddly after a brief flirtation with Delta (and a platinum card with a good offer) I have a boatload of miles over there so I’ve been noodling about a trip to South America or southeast Asia.


brenda m - Jan 31, 2025 6:08:37 pm PST #5039 of 5042
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Glasses win!


-t - Jan 31, 2025 7:05:00 pm PST #5040 of 5042
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Woo, London! Have a good trip, transcending the chump lounge constraint


Calli - Jan 31, 2025 7:23:27 pm PST #5041 of 5042
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m sorry lisah.

Safe travels, Brenda!

So apparently Musk is trying to get access to the US Treasury. [link]

How much is going to end up in his virtual pockets?


sj - Jan 31, 2025 7:38:10 pm PST #5042 of 5042
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Brenda, have a great time in my favorite city!

I’m watching the news, which I should not be because everything is awful.


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