What is your childhood trauma?

Cordelia ,'Lessons'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Emily - Jan 22, 2025 9:42:06 am PST #4763 of 4799
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Consuela, I'm so sorry. I honestly don't understand how we got here. (Today I came up with a theory about leaded gasoline, but it's not much comfort.) I don't know what I could possibly offer, but let me know if I can do anything from far away.

Working for a state university makes me a little nervous, I tell you what.

I got a little into it there and depressed myself, so I deleted most of it and pulled myself back out. Anyone have a suggestion for a small action for good today?


-t - Jan 22, 2025 9:50:33 am PST #4764 of 4799
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Eeeeeeeeee, Japan!

Hoping for not too terrible for mr flea


Emily - Jan 22, 2025 9:51:30 am PST #4765 of 4799
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

And Hec, I find it surprisingly easy to imagine you in Japan. I hope you both have a fantastic time.


chrismg - Jan 22, 2025 10:03:19 am PST #4766 of 4799
"...and then Legolas and the Hulk destroy the entire Greek army." - Penny Arcade

Bon Voyage Hec!

Emily do you have a local food bank? Donating money or volunteering is almost always an unmixed good.


brenda m - Jan 22, 2025 10:17:55 am PST #4767 of 4799
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Brenda why do you not have a water bill?

The water here is from a well.

We are on the city sewer line (thank dog) but not on municipal water.


brenda m - Jan 22, 2025 10:20:50 am PST #4768 of 4799
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

We’ll all be excited to hear Japan reports!

Suela, you’ve been on my mind these past few days. So enraging. I don’t know who else around here (directly, immediately) impacted, besides possibly flea’s DH, but I’m really sorry for all this painful unnecessary and ultimately destructive bullshit you’re dealing with.


dcp - Jan 22, 2025 10:23:47 am PST #4769 of 4799
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

the pin prick shotgun holes in the picture window

Is there a good story to go with that?


dcp - Jan 22, 2025 10:27:34 am PST #4770 of 4799
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

dcp, we're flying out

DavidS, thank you for indulging my entertainment.

Bon voyage! Stay hydrated.


msbelle - Jan 22, 2025 10:31:29 am PST #4771 of 4799
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Emily, a small action for good (for you) is to get things in order so it is already done should an emergency come. May not seem directly related to current political things, but having “stuff” prepared is important when you don’t know what is coming. - passport and other important docs. Updated and in a safe location that someone else knows about. - emergency contacts in your phone and informed that you are identifying them as such. - wills and advanced healthcare directive done - car repairs/home repairs - updating any technology that might need replacing before tariffs - paying down or off debt - creating space in your place (if possible) for a friend/family should the need arise (making a plan for yourself should the need arise) -limit things that increase anxiety (news consumption, social media) - take time for things that are enjoyable and distress you, walks, meditation, comfort reading or tv watching, calls with friends, drives.

For others longer term: Find somewhere to volunteer for vulnerable people. Unsheltered, lqbtqia, undocumented, Dv victims, reproductive rights orgs. Donate an item a week or so to a food bank. Call your state and federal representatives when there is something up for vote you feel strongly about.


Gudanov - Jan 22, 2025 10:54:41 am PST #4772 of 4799
Coding and Sleeping

Stay warm, Gud. Sounds like it's fixed?

Yes, it's fixed. It was a bad control board.