See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Jan 20, 2025 10:10:03 am PST #4673 of 6014

That’s nice Brenda! I’d probably buy it and then realize I was not confident using it and end up calling AAA anyway.

I am also not a Twitter person, so Bluesky is not really doing it for me. But it’s a bummer seeing yet another social media break down. Damn you capitalism! You’re why we can’t have nice things!

For time wasting purposes and staying in touch with culture I am glad TikTok is back even if temporarily, but it does creep me out expecting the new turn the propaganda will take. Def not the same as keeping up with friends, either.


P.M. Marc - Jan 20, 2025 10:17:34 am PST #4674 of 6014
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I am also not a Twitter person, so Bluesky is not really doing it for me. But it’s a bummer seeing yet another social media break down. Damn you capitalism! You’re why we can’t have nice things!

It giveth and it taketh away. Realistically, I don't know if we'll ever get a true replacement for FB, which had evolved into something with some serious great functionality (that's been less and less functional lately, but still exceeds the other options out there). The alternatives that are great for text suck for images and video (hosting those being $$$$$ and more fraught), and most of them have a high barrier to entry.

I'm half-assedly using Bluesky to keep up with some people, but as someone who never loved Twitter, it's still not my jam. I do have reblogs turned off, which helps weed out the political stuff that I just do not want to see anywhere. (Sorry, but I have come to believe that posting about politics ad nauseam or reblogging political posts all the time or reading any of the above does more harm than good.)


msbelle - Jan 20, 2025 10:21:44 am PST #4675 of 6014
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I do have reblogs turned off

oh! good one. I just did that. too many people reblogging the same thing. and too many authors reblogging anyone who posts their bits.


Steph L. - Jan 20, 2025 10:22:08 am PST #4676 of 6014
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Jesus FUCKING Christ. People in my neighborhood had actual KKK flyers posted on their door today. One with a drawing of Uncle Sam kicking a family with the words "LEAVE NOW Mass Deportation January 20, 2025," and another flyer with "Tri-State* Konklave Saturday February 15, 2025: the Trinity White Knights of the Ku Klux Klan is hosting a Tri-State Konclave. Other Klans and like-minded people are welcome to attend. Good food, fellowship, speeches, and Knightrides."

I'm officially fucking terrified.

*(Tri-state for us is Ohio, Indiana, Kentucky.)


Steph L. - Jan 20, 2025 10:22:48 am PST #4677 of 6014
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I'll note that I learned that in my neighborhood's Facebook group, which is one reason I'm sticking around on FB.


msbelle - Jan 20, 2025 10:23:47 am PST #4678 of 6014
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

That’s fucking awful. It’s going to be more of that I fear.


Laura - Jan 20, 2025 10:27:42 am PST #4679 of 6014
Our wings are not tired.

That is horrible and very scary, Teppy!!!


Jessica - Jan 20, 2025 10:43:20 am PST #4680 of 6014
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

amped up power thingy. It jumps everything super easy but also can inflate a tire, provide a spotlight or charge devices.

Ooooh, link? I don't have a Costco membership but that sounds so useful.

Tep that is horrifying, I'm so sorry.


Steph L. - Jan 20, 2025 10:45:32 am PST #4681 of 6014
I look more rad than Lutheranism

It happened basically as soon as 47 was sworn in. Clearly on purpose. I'm ready to punch some racist motherfuckers.


askye - Jan 20, 2025 11:17:12 am PST #4682 of 6014
Thrive to spite them

I'm not looking at FB as much but I do check in because I have relatives who use it

M deleted TikTok and is just acting like it never came back. He mostly watched video game content and some political stuff and would argue with people.

He downloaded Red Note and so far is just watching animal videos. He has run across a few Tiktok refugees but he doesn't pay attention to that. It's mostly "look!!! It's so cute !!.....look!! The monkey in its little hat !! Red Panda!! It's so fluffy!" So his mood is a lot better.

And there is a whole lot of monkeys taking things from people which he has dubbed "Evil Monkey" videos and made a theme song for them and narration and commentary.

It's cold today. So we are hanging out on the couch and staying warm.