Xander: How? What? How? Giles: Three excellent questions.

Xander/Giles ,'Never Leave Me'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Jan 18, 2025 4:07:11 pm PST #4625 of 5989
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Good luck Atropa!

The water comes out ice cold (kind of nice if what you want is a cold glass of water) and takes a WHILE to heat up.

This is what I was worried about - We have well-water here and JFC is it cold. But it doesn’t seem to be taking too much longer than normal. And it’s definitely getting hot enough.

I guess this weekend will be the test because it’s 20 now and going into single digits for the next several days. If it can keep up with that, it can handle anything.


Consuela - Jan 18, 2025 4:53:54 pm PST #4626 of 5989
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Just thought I'd share some advice on protecting your data from FB if that's something you want to do: [link]


Dana - Jan 18, 2025 5:31:31 pm PST #4627 of 5989
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

We were expecting the date of the house completion and signing to slip, and apparently it's not? So we need to be in Richmond in like 2.5 weeks? Which means we have to start getting everything done? Now?


Susan W. - Jan 18, 2025 7:25:51 pm PST #4628 of 5989
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Belated huzzahs for all the good health news! Benign is such a beautiful word.

Best of luck, Atropa!

In related news, I had my now-annual breast MRI last Sunday, and got the results on Tuesday--nothing concerning, see you next year.

My plan for Monday involves reading, listening to non-political podcasts (I'm currently binge-listening to Normal Gossip), and trying to avoid any interaction whatsoever with the news.


msbelle - Jan 18, 2025 7:54:13 pm PST #4629 of 5989
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

We’re expecting snow tomorrow. I didn’t make it of the house today, so might need to get up and get out in the morning for mik and a few items.

This Washington Detroit game is bonkers.


meara - Jan 18, 2025 10:03:31 pm PST #4630 of 5989

I just got home from a dance and expected to have a couple more hours to enjoy the last day of TikTok, but apparently they turned it off at midnight eastern time! Dang. It was so entertaining, but I don’t think I’ll go download whatever other app. Sigh. It’s frustrating because yes, I’m sure it’s spying on me but so is Facebook and I don’t think it’s more ok for Facebook to be doing it just because they’re an American company? It’s still shitty?


Theodosia - Jan 19, 2025 7:52:29 am PST #4631 of 5989
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I'm signed out of Facebook until the 26th. (I hope I can stay strong.)

Places like this and Bluesky are all that are going to keep me sane while I detox.


msbelle - Jan 19, 2025 8:54:18 am PST #4632 of 5989
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I deleted my IG and will go sign out of FB now. Bluesky is holding my interest.


Cashmere - Jan 19, 2025 9:28:02 am PST #4633 of 5989
Now tagless for your comfort.

Yay benign boobs, msbelle!

David, online options are good. But yeah, fucking nightmare to switch. I am still so excited about your Japan trip and Matilda’s stay. I know you will love it!

I have logged off all meta apps for now. I hope to stay off them indefinitely. Bluesky is working for me. And snapchat.

I dipped a toe into Red Note (Xiaohongshu), which is pretty intriguing.

Disassociating from the news for a few days. Working on a music project with the local historical society, am starting a class on running non-profits, and reading.


Emily - Jan 19, 2025 9:41:51 am PST #4634 of 5989
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Well, I thought real hard about leaving Facebook before, so I guess now I really ought to do it. Shame as I only just introduced my mother to Instagram so she could watch the Ben Fensome Pride and Prejudice videos. Will the board take me back?

I tend to drift away from b.org because I can't keep up. Then I visit again, swear I'm going to stay involved, then forget, rinse, repeat. Indeed, Facebook is mostly a more asynchronous way for me to keep up with you people. But it looks like almost all my other social avenues are becoming morally insupportable. It might be time to take a good hard look at gmail.

I wonder if I still own any address books?