It's not like she blew me off. She just left with another guy, that's all.

Riley ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Jan 06, 2025 2:38:07 pm PST #4368 of 4383
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I got summoned for county AND federal jury duty in the back half of January, and I DO NOT NEED THIS. We don't have a firm move date yet, but currently we may need to be at the new house on 2/3 for a walkthrough, and I do not wish to add jury duty to the middle of this.


-t - Jan 06, 2025 3:24:13 pm PST #4369 of 4383
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's uncalled for, summoners


meara - Jan 06, 2025 3:27:48 pm PST #4370 of 4383

At the same time? Geez. Often they’ll let you postpone once, and then if you happen to have moved by the time the postponement dates come, oh well!


-t - Jan 06, 2025 3:35:23 pm PST #4371 of 4383
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

And now I have 3 hours of meetings tomorrow morning, 9am to noon. Always a good time but especially when it's discussions of the current reorg at different levels! Ugh.


JenP - Jan 06, 2025 3:38:52 pm PST #4372 of 4383

Ay, ay, ay, people. You are having stressful times. Do not like this for you, Dana or -t.

Or anyone else, of course. meara with the VPN, askye with the sick kitty. I do not approve. Though I am glad kitty is getting good drugs. Healing ~ma to her.


-t - Jan 06, 2025 3:46:34 pm PST #4373 of 4383
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

The guest list for the department meeting confirms that the rumor mill was accurate. So that's something, I suppose.

I'm glad Starbucks isn't on strike right now, I'm gonna need a drive through treat for my commute.


DavidS - Jan 06, 2025 4:11:06 pm PST #4374 of 4383
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I forget, how long will Matilda be there, and what are her living arrangements?

Matilda will be in Kyoto from January 29th to April 19th. Slightly under three months so you don't need a special Visa. We'll be in Tokyo to start from 1/23 until 1/28. I'll be in Japan ten days in total. I promised Cashmere I'd look for Japanese Roller Derby merch.

Matilda will be living with a host family, and we'll get that assignment probably next week. We have to get gifts for the family, but never in sets of four (according to Cash!). It's bad luck.

The program is with CIEE: [link]

The CIEE center is walking distance to the language school, and includes people in Junior year abroad programs, Freshman year abroad, gap year and post-grad. So, Matilda will get to interact with people in a variety of different programs and ages.

The language school is not limited to the CIEE program so there will be a nice cross section of ex-pats and others in the classes. In other words Matilda won't just be lumped in with her Gap Year cohort: [link]

The CIEE center is literally three blocks from the Kyoto Manga Museum, and two blocks from the Cultural Museum of Kyoto. Our Ryokan is a few blocks from the Kyoto Samurai Ninja Museum and the famous Nishiki market.

Matilda will be in language class from 9-12 M-F, and then there's an hour or two of cultural studies. So she should be done about 2pm most days. She can walk over to the CIEE center and meet up with different people who are making group outings in various configurations. There's an organized outing weekly, and once a month they take a field trip (one is to Osaka which is 15 minutes away via Bullet Train).

I'll be flying home from Osaka because Kyoto is such a classy old school city, it doesn't have an airport.


aurelia - Jan 06, 2025 4:11:56 pm PST #4375 of 4383
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Oof -t, that's too much stress for the first Monday of the year.

I've been supremely lazy today, but in fairness it is my only day off within a 10-day stretch. I had planned to get groceries, and do some laundry and cooking. Instead I have done some reading and deleted about 3000 emails from one of my personal accounts.


JenP - Jan 06, 2025 5:01:28 pm PST #4376 of 4383

That sounds just phenomenal, David. So excited for her! Well, and you both for your visit there together, too. So exciting!


-t - Jan 06, 2025 5:01:45 pm PST #4377 of 4383
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That sounds so great, Hec!

Good for you, be lazy, aurelia!