Illyria: We cling to what is gone. Is there anything in this life but grief? Wesley: There's love. There's hope...for some. There's hope that you'll find something worthy...that your life will lead you to some joy...that after everything...you can still be surprised. Illyria: Is that enough? Is that enough to live on?

'Shells'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Oct 21, 2024 1:18:44 pm PDT #3039 of 4159
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Good luck with the therapist, Hec.


erikaj - Oct 21, 2024 1:26:10 pm PDT #3040 of 4159
Always Anti-fascist!

chemistry is important at times like that, Laura.


dcp - Oct 21, 2024 1:39:02 pm PDT #3041 of 4159
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Are "mish kids" missionary kids?

Correct!

Came back to the States with a posh British accent that did not go over well....

When I would come back to Arkansas on summer vacations, I would get teased for "talking British." As best I could tell, it was for pronouncing my final "g"s and being careful of my grammar. It usually took me a week or so to relax into the surrounding Southern drawl.

My accent and dialect always seem to adapt pretty quickly to whatever is being spoken wherever I happen to be. My inner voice always reflects whatever I have been reading lately, and if I am not careful that will slip out into my spoken voice as well. That gets me some odd looks, sometimes.


Karl - Oct 21, 2024 4:34:44 pm PDT #3042 of 4159
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Hec, in your post you refer to both "Austria" and "Australia" in terms of the size of Chongqing; those are very different figures, and Australia is actually bigger than the continental USA in terms of land area.

I am willing to believe that Chongqing is larger than Austria (which is only a quarter the size of Germany), but one city (even one that is non-continguously dispersed) larger than the Lower 48 is a bit of a stretch for me.


erikaj - Oct 21, 2024 6:29:15 pm PDT #3043 of 4159
Always Anti-fascist!

I thought that was just me moving slowly this morning...good catch.


DavidS - Oct 21, 2024 6:55:10 pm PDT #3044 of 4159
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I was just cutting and pasting so we'll have to take that size discrepancy up with Wikipedia.

Further research shows that Szechuan food comes from Chongqing, and, of course, I've had that.

First therapy was good - she's very kind and empathetic. However, I'm a little worried about going down into some of the darker and twistier parts of my psyche with her. But I'll have another session with her next week and try to broach that.


Calli - Oct 22, 2024 7:19:59 am PDT #3045 of 4159
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad the therapy started well, Hec.

My workplace added Michigan to the places from which some employees can work remotely. I’ve submitted my application. University HR grinds amazingly slowly, but I’d like to get myself up north by next spring, so I can help my sister after her knee surgery. She has so much she wants to be doing, with work, grandkids, getting their house ready for sale, etc., and mobility issues (and pain) are slowing her down.


meara - Oct 22, 2024 7:21:27 am PDT #3046 of 4159

Are you planning to move, Calli, or just visit for an extended period?

I’d like to be able to do more extended visits but the dog makes it hard.


Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 22, 2024 7:21:54 am PDT #3047 of 4159
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

When I would come back to Arkansas on summer vacations, I would get teased for "talking British." As best I could tell, it was for pronouncing my final "g"s and being careful of my grammar. It usually took me a week or so to relax into the surrounding Southern drawl.

I don't recall ever being teased for my Midwestern newscaster accent as a kid, but in Middle School our transplant from NYC told me I was the only classmate he had no difficulty understanding.


Calli - Oct 22, 2024 7:24:40 am PDT #3048 of 4159
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m hoping to move permanently. There’s a lot to like in NC, but the summers are getting progressively harder for me. And I would like to be more present in my family’s lives.