But? There's always a but. When this is over, can we have a big 'but' moratorium?

Fred ,'Smile Time'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Oct 17, 2024 8:41:51 am PDT #2984 of 2998

Hmm well the ominous after hours “please attend of of two meetings tomorrow” meeting was basically saying they’re getting rid of a position I work closely with and making my job do that work instead. I kinda get why (though they originally put that position in place like ten years ago because they wanted it done better/faster than it was when my job was doing it all) but I don’t WANNA do that stuff. Boo. But I do feel bad for the folks in that job—some will change to what I do now but some will probably leave.


-t - Oct 17, 2024 8:56:26 am PDT #2985 of 2998
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Ugh, meara.


Jessica - Oct 17, 2024 9:41:35 am PDT #2986 of 2998
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Blargh, meara, that sounds pretty awful. Any chance you can offload some of the extra work onto someone else so it's at least not all on you?

And I encourage everybody to get up and move their body today, in whatever way they prefer. Get some steps in. Get on the bike. Go swimming. Just go for a walk.

I've been swimming twice a week since the rec center opened back up again (the pool was supposed to be closed for 3 weeks of renovations, it wound up taking 7 months). The real test will come in January when it's (a) incredibly fucking cold first thing in the morning and (b) I'm supposed to be at the office 5 days/week (which means showering at the gym and putting outside clothes on instead of throwing on sweatpants and a hoodie over my swimsuit and showering at home) and (c) the pool will be hella CROWDED for like a month because of everyone's NY resolutions.


Jesse - Oct 17, 2024 10:56:07 am PDT #2987 of 2998
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Dear friends, prepare to be outraged: [link] The headline: The Best Muffuletta Ever Is Far From New Orleans — and Free of Meat. The subhead: A New Orleans native re-creates the iconic sandwich's flavor with mushrooms, mayonnaise, and more riffs.

Helen Rosner is appropriately horrified on Bluesky, but I'm not sure if her posts are public or not. [link]


-t - Oct 17, 2024 11:35:00 am PDT #2988 of 2998
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You know, I am mellowing in my old age or something but I'm not mad at it. I think calling it "best" is ridiculous but I think calling it a muffaletta is fine (edited to clarify: pending verification that the bread and olive content and general taste are acceptable) and I would be interested in tasting one. $98 for a whole seems like a lot, but in SF in this day and age when everything seems to cost more than I would think perhaps not.

That said, Helen is absolutely correct


Dana - Oct 17, 2024 12:17:35 pm PDT #2989 of 2998
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I'm irritated by it, but I am also tired.


Jessica - Oct 17, 2024 12:27:35 pm PDT #2990 of 2998
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I am way more horrified by that $98 price tag than by any of the ingredients. Are the mushrooms imported from a boutique hobbit farm in Middle Earth??


-t - Oct 17, 2024 12:33:16 pm PDT #2991 of 2998
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I mean, Haight-Ashbury, so maybe


-t - Oct 17, 2024 12:35:40 pm PDT #2992 of 2998
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

And while the $98 seems high, $15 for 1/8 seems reasonable to me, (although while eating 1/8 of a muffaletta does make sense I somehow feel like selling less than a quarter is not right) so I don't even know


JenP - Oct 17, 2024 12:42:05 pm PDT #2993 of 2998

I'd eat it, which, to me, is the most important part. I read the article but missed the $98 pricetag... is that, like, the whole round, but then he divides it up to sell? Ain't no sandwich, muffaleta or not, that I'm paying $98 for unless it comes with a... something I actually want, not what I was about to type, but I think you get my meaning.

At the beach for a couple of days visiting my aunt. Rest and relaxation, yay.