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Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

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DebetEsse - May 28, 2026 5:33:02 pm PDT #12836 of 12845
Woe to the fucking wicked.

We have 3 (was 4 till recently) people living at the nursing home where I work for another month who are there pretty exclusively for mental illness (not counting our dementia folks). We do our best for them, and I've been pushing for getting more people more out in the world more often, but it's not great for any of them.

We also have homeless folks who come in for rehab. Some of them want better things for themselves, and we do what we can. Others deny that there is any problem, even though their clothes they went into the ED in were destroyed due to being covered in feces and the person has been blacklisted from every hotel in town.

I'm in pretty much the best of all possible medicaid facilities, and it's still...fucking rough out there. There is no point in human history when we've gotten it right.


DebetEsse - May 28, 2026 5:34:48 pm PDT #12837 of 12845
Woe to the fucking wicked.

ION, we spent the day at the regional theme park of my youth, which has gotten freaking enormous.

They have free drinks and free sunscreen, and, after spending the day there, I think making those things readily accessible to the teenaged workers was likely a major consideration in that policy


Hil R. - May 28, 2026 7:16:36 pm PDT #12838 of 12845
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I once got into an argument with someone who thought that government-run institutions had been great, and that they only got terrible after private firms took over. That is just ... not what the reality has ever been.

ION, I feel like I'm going slightly stir-crazy now that the semester is over. I'm trying to get out and do stuff so that I'm not just staying inside by myself, but I also do have things I need to do at home. I got a ticket to a musical tomorrow night, though, and I've been trying to go for a walk everyday if it's not raining, so at least I'm not too much alone.


Sophia Brooks - May 29, 2026 3:34:18 pm PDT #12839 of 12845
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

It was all terrible. I don’t know how to solve it, because I am on the side of we should just help people and then the help turns out to be not help or corruption. My mother’s job was actually determining whether a person qualified to have Medicare/caid pay for a nursing home and she was dogged in ferreting out money transfers to avoid paying themselves for care-she was incensed by people giving money to their children. But it also made her very wary of any sort of help.

I also sort of have a problem with WIC- its intentions are good, but people also need diapers. So then these little mini marts falsify things so people can get diapers and they ring up formula, but they charge the folks an exorbitant amount for the diapers.

I still sort of believe in a universal basic income, but that will get corrupt too.


sj - May 30, 2026 11:54:27 am PDT #12840 of 12845
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

We have an HSA card through TCG’s work that covers lots of non prescription stuff at the pharmacy. Something like that added to the WIC program might be helpful.


Sheryl - May 31, 2026 1:38:07 pm PDT #12841 of 12845
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Nothing new on the Mr. S front. We thought there was a placement for him on Thursday, but then more information was made available to CPS, and they needed to meet about it. Sigh...

In different news, Gary and I went to the Springsteen show on Wed. It was a great show, as usual. Plenty of political commentary.


Calli - May 31, 2026 1:54:57 pm PDT #12842 of 12845
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My crowd issues make big rock shows challenging, but I’d totally consider trying for Bruce Springsteen. I’m glad you were able to go, Sheryl.


Laura - May 31, 2026 2:11:06 pm PDT #12843 of 12845
Our wings are not tired.

Springsteen has really stepped up. I'd love to see him live.


erikaj - May 31, 2026 5:13:35 pm PDT #12844 of 12845
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

def one of the people I still wish I could see.


Jessica - Jun 01, 2026 7:47:21 am PDT #12845 of 12845
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I still sort of believe in a universal basic income, but that will get corrupt too.

My non-expert opinion is that a truly universal entitlement is harder to corrupt than one with any amount of gatekeeping. If there's no barrier to entry then there's no system to game. (That's a vast oversimplification, but I stand by the principle of Just Give People Money and If You Don't Make The Rules Full of Cruel Nonsense Then Nobody Will Need To Lie To Feed Their Children.)

We are having a new roof put on today and boy, it's loud.


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