Now, I can hold a note for a long time...actually I can hold a note forever. But eventually that's just noise. It's the change we're listening for. The note coming after, and the one after that. That's what makes it music.

Host ,'Why We Fight'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - May 04, 2026 10:34:35 am PDT #12530 of 12659
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Best wishes for Tim and you, Tep.


Laura - May 04, 2026 12:16:10 pm PDT #12531 of 12659
Our wings are not tired.

And Brendon was released. He was in the last bunch for a trial he didn't want to hear, but didn't make the cut. Phew.

Continuing to send vibes Tim's way.


Steph L. - May 04, 2026 1:05:58 pm PDT #12532 of 12659
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

The surgeon said the procedure went very well (she used the phrase "easy peasy"), and now we're just waiting for Tim to be brought back up to the hospital room.


Jessica - May 04, 2026 1:24:56 pm PDT #12533 of 12659
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

(Easy-peasy no-more-lung squeezy)


-t - May 04, 2026 1:30:15 pm PDT #12534 of 12659
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Easy peasy is the number one phrase I want to hear from a surgeon!


dcp - May 04, 2026 2:10:17 pm PDT #12535 of 12659
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

she used the phrase "easy peasy"

That should mean a discount on the extended-service warranty.


Laura - May 04, 2026 2:17:24 pm PDT #12536 of 12659
Our wings are not tired.

Woot!


JenP - May 04, 2026 2:31:42 pm PDT #12537 of 12659

Yay!


askye - May 04, 2026 4:40:01 pm PDT #12538 of 12659
Thrive to spite them

Tim's lung better stay stapled!


askye - May 04, 2026 4:44:56 pm PDT #12539 of 12659
Thrive to spite them

I'm not exactly sure but I accidentally triggered a massive anxiety attack for M. I know what led up to it but I'm not sure how we got from that to major anxiety attack and me being anywhere near him just makes it worse. But of course I want to go and help him but I can't.

Penny's medication came this afternoon and there was some papers with it. I thought I had them all together and when I went to give Penny the meds (it's thyroid medicine that goes on her skin in her ear) and was looking for the dosage amount and couldn't find it. M was kind of helping me but he was also trying to play a game that is one of those where you can't pause and he was getting frustrated so I told him I would look later. And somehow me leaving upset him even more and then he just spiraled. I do know he forgot his anti anxiety meds when we went up to Mom's so that's part of it. I look at him and it hurts to see him so upset. Especially when it wasn't that long ago I would be in a similar situation. I am going to try to run some numbers and see if we could afford to get him on my insurance because I feel like that would get him better help than the VA is able to.