Seconded. Shall we put it to a vote?
'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'
Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Today should be Friday.
Hmmm, that would mess up my schedule.
Gray morning in SF but I don't begrudge it. Also it'll probably burn off.
JZ's cousin Nicole is visiting this week and I'll be taking her to Chinatown at her request.
Apparently she hasn't been back since she was 12 and it is magical in her memory.
Then I'm getting a facial and I'm meeting up with a friend whose marriage has come to a surprise (for her) end. She's very bereft, and I remember those feelings well.
Also being a widower, I am more recently acquainted with the sudden advent of wildly change life circumstances.
So I will be there to buy her drinks and assure her that there is a life to be led on the other side of the dark tunnel she has entered.
Tomorrow is May! One third of this year is over. One quarter of this century is over. 2030 is a totally made up science fiction year but it's going to happen pretty soon.
More confusingly autonomous humanoid robots are being sold by multiple companies and they're going to be everywhere. They are already working in Amazon warehouses and Tesla assembly lines and in Korean malls. Nobody seems to be talking about this but it's happening. It happened before flying cars.
Lunch today is roast duck breast and ramps. I keep thinking I should go back and have one wrapped to take home to mom... um...
Its not traumatic or even that upsetting to have to remind myself over and over again that she's dead but, seriously? Multiple times in the course of a meal?
Oh! I saw King Charles yesterday.
Possibly Camilla.
I saw a left hand waving out the window of the motorcade that was effing my commute.
Its not traumatic or even that upsetting to have to remind myself over and over again that she's dead but, seriously? Multiple times in the course of a meal?It's over and over for so dang long. It's the worst club.
It's been 10 years since mom has been gone and I still think I have to call her when I get home from a trip.
Its not traumatic or even that upsetting to have to remind myself over and over again that she's dead but, seriously? Multiple times in the course of a meal?
Yes, that definitely happens. Dad died in 2009, and when the last Indiana Jones movie came out in 2023 my first thought was, “I should see that with Dad.”
It's the worst club.
Truth.
Its not traumatic or even that upsetting to have to remind myself over and over again that she's dead but, seriously? Multiple times in the course of a meal?
The other day I saw something and immediately thought of my cousin S and how he would like it and he's been gone for over a decade.
I'm in VA. Haven't been able to see my nephew because of his school and play. But have seen my brother. I realize that we don't have a ton in common and finding things to talk about is awkward.
Manassas is cool though
It's been 8 years since my dad passed away, and I think I've reached the point where most unexpected reminders lead me on a fond journey through old memories with just a tinge of sadness.