Mal: Inara, think you could stoop to being on my arm? Inara: Will you wash it first?

'Heart Of Gold'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


aurelia - Mar 20, 2026 10:09:24 pm PDT #12047 of 12321
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Absolutely.


Susan W. - Mar 20, 2026 11:23:47 pm PDT #12048 of 12321
The wide universe is the ocean I travel, and the earth is my blue boat home

Me, checking the bulletin for spoilers for Sunday... "WOO! SUSAN!"

As of a few hours ago, my sermon is even written! (I had a draft last night, but when I tried it out on Dylan, he convinced me I needed to basically take it apart and put it back together again in a different order. And he was right, dammit. It's much better now.)


P.M. Marc - Mar 20, 2026 11:54:32 pm PDT #12049 of 12321
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

As of a few hours ago, my sermon is even written! (I had a draft last night, but when I tried it out on Dylan, he convinced me I needed to basically take it apart and put it back together again in a different order. And he was right, dammit. It's much better now.)

Am excite!


Shir - Mar 21, 2026 5:43:40 am PDT #12050 of 12321
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I am sorry to hear about Nicholas Brendon. Too young.

I am intentionally trying to leave my friends' apartment more and more (and planning my routes so that I'll be next to shelters as much as possible), so yesterday I went to help packing emergency supplies to the West Bank (via that cause: [link] I can't say I helped much as 30% of the time those of us who didn't want to run for shelter were in a shelter waiting for sirens that never came (there were "missiles are expected in your direction soon, stay close to shelter" messages), but I helped with some boxes and I brought cake with me. There's also a protest tonight - Saturday night protests against the government returned, but as much as I'd like to be there I don't know if I'm physically up to it today.

My next impossible projects are to a. plan a (Passover) Seder, which I love doing but I also can't really plan because how can you plan a Seder when you don't know if people are even able to come and if it's safe to come, b. continue working on my plan to study abroad next year (right now it means narrowing down options, prepare for TOEFL, understand how and when to pack my life here, and deal with the guilt over leaving this place and the people that I love dearly and live here while it's on fire), and c. trying to live as much as possible in this weird reality. It is scary, but I am trying my best to live in this world as it is. Choices are often limited, but as long as I have them and I can remember that I have them and not to surrender to exhaustion and/or fear, it's good.

"How did we get a Buffista Church before we got an island?"

If Christian colonialism taught me anything, it's that we're on the right path to Buffista island and need more following. And maybe an army.


sumi - Mar 21, 2026 6:04:14 am PDT #12051 of 12321
Art Crawl!!!

I haven’t been here in ages but I had to come back when I heard the Nicholas Brendon news. So sad.

Meanwhile it is so good to see you all here.


Laura - Mar 21, 2026 7:52:43 am PDT #12052 of 12321
Our wings are not tired.

Hi Sumi! You are missed. I think about you when I do my Wordle. Do you do the Hurdle too? I go to that one via the AARP link.

Buuuut On Tuesday, one of my sister‘s friends arranged tix to a one-man show, Buffy Revamped With a single actor in the character of Spike retelling all seven seasons of Buffy in 70 minutes.

That sounds so delightful.

trying to live as much as possible in this weird reality. It is scary, but I am trying my best to live in this world as it is

Your efforts to maintain some sense of normalcy are inspiring. I continue to send vibes for sanity to somehow reach the powers that be, and calm, serenity, and perseverance to you and all affected.

Things here are still overwhelming. Yet, I do know I have much to be grateful for. Finally got DH to take a couple hours and go watch a March Madness game and eat wings with a friend. He needs at least a couple clones for all he has on his plate. I've taken over two of his chores to try and help some. I'm taking the dog to the park both in the morning and evening, which we used to share. AND for the first time in 38 years I've started to do his laundry. The 4 family members were always responsible for our own, at least since the boys could reach the nobs. I've now made a new rule that Brendon can only put on his list the things that only he can do because that list is long enough already. (he's not good at following that rule)

So, I wrote that post some time ago this morning, and never hit post. Such is my life!


JenP - Mar 21, 2026 7:54:00 am PDT #12053 of 12321

Hey, sumi! Sad reason, yes, but great to see you!


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 21, 2026 8:01:40 am PDT #12054 of 12321
You have to remember that being a 5-time Olympic medalist means Hilary Knight has been playing hockey at an elite level at least 16 years. It's impossible for her to be a teenage girl less than 16 years old, thus the President's complete lack of interest.

Kermit waves to sumi


JenP - Mar 21, 2026 8:01:51 am PDT #12055 of 12321

Shir, thinking of you daily.

Brenda, that sounds so fun.

The last mushing run article was moving.

We have our landlord and a couple of his handyman here to fix a couple of ceiling fans and the bathroom exhaust fans which both shorted out (at separate times). It's a FANtastic day here at the manor.

We saw Project Hail Mary last night. Delightful. Drew Goddard wrote himself an adaptation that absolutely reflected the tone and action of the book, and Ryan Gosling was perfect in the role. Couldn't have been more pleased with how it turned out.

ETA: Thanks for the rec, erika and the gift link, Kat. I'm halfway through that one, too.


meara - Mar 21, 2026 9:27:27 am PDT #12056 of 12321

Im going to see project Hal Mary tonight! At some point. If I manage to get out of bed.

If Christian colonialism taught me anything, it's that we're on the right path to Buffista island and need more following. And maybe an army.

You do have a point!! Also I am surprised you even have to take the TOEFL, you’re going to crush it.