I hope you don't think that I just come over for the spells and everything. I mean, I really like just talking and hanging out with you and stuff.

Willow ,'First Date'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Mar 01, 2026 12:19:08 pm PST #11784 of 12318
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

same here, nilly. The phonebank I was supposed to do was about talking to white Americans about the mIddle east. I feel guilty about missing it.


lisah - Mar 01, 2026 12:55:15 pm PST #11785 of 12318
Punishingly Intricate

Nilly, you and your family are in my thoughts. Sending you all love.


Consuela - Mar 01, 2026 1:22:11 pm PST #11786 of 12318
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

{{hugs to Nilly and Shir}}

I went to a protest in SF yesterday. it was pretty small, and I was reminded of the anti-war protests before we went to war in Iraq, when there were millions of people on the street and it didn't make even a little difference.

But one does what one can.

In other news I had a nice hike in the redwoods with my sister & BIL and the dogs, and so far as I can tell, the Tornado didn't pick up any ticks. Yay for that.

Now I have to go buy groceries and prep for dog class and then it's back to the work week, sigh.


Laura - Mar 01, 2026 1:48:24 pm PST #11787 of 12318
Our wings are not tired.

Thank you for checking in, Nilly. It is so much to comprehend all of the life disruptions, ranging from people dying to missing school and holidays like Purim. The insanity of the powers that be is affecting every aspect of people's lives.


erikaj - Mar 01, 2026 2:00:09 pm PST #11788 of 12318
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

I know lots of movement people that got their starts from those, Consuela. But yeah, you didn't get an immediate effect from that, but that is how PDA became a thing, for one.


JenP - Mar 01, 2026 2:55:33 pm PST #11789 of 12318

You and your families are close in my heart and thoughts every day, Nilly and Shir.

I think that's all I have right now.


kat - Mar 01, 2026 3:33:40 pm PST #11790 of 12318
"The thing about dorks is we stick together. Mostly for gaming purposes but also because it wards off jocks, gutter clowns and other Stephen King-like threats." - Lauren Okie

Thanks for checking in, Nilly.

Kat did you expect a younger crowd for Brandi Carlyle? I guess I assume her fans are all middle aged lesbians because that’s who I know…

meara, I think the problem is that I don't think of myself as a middle-aged lesbian! I guess I think of Brandi Carlile as predominantly drawing the same crowd as Glennon Doyle or Elizabeth Gilbert. That flavor of white lady. Maybe it's because when I was in my big live music listening times (like my early twenties) Carlile was decidedly not on the scene. Like it doesn't ping me that the Indigo Girls are OLD. Carlile's a little younger than I am, I think... more elder millenial than Gen X... so I thought her crowd would be younger.


kat - Mar 01, 2026 3:36:07 pm PST #11791 of 12318
"The thing about dorks is we stick together. Mostly for gaming purposes but also because it wards off jocks, gutter clowns and other Stephen King-like threats." - Lauren Okie

meara, I just figured it out! I thought her crowd would be like the gay version of the crowd at a Pink show.


meara - Mar 01, 2026 4:53:48 pm PST #11792 of 12318

Hahaha I can see that. I have several friends who have attended her “girls just wanna” weekend in Mexico, though I have not because I don’t really know any of her music.


Pix - Mar 01, 2026 7:20:10 pm PST #11793 of 12318
The status is NOT quo.

So glad to hear from you, Shir and Nilly.