Mal: Cut it out. Job's not done until we're back on Serenity. Zoe: Sorry, sir. Didn't mean to enjoy the moment.

'Ariel'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Jan 05, 2026 11:14:57 am PST #10920 of 10960

::sending note from invisible friend in the box to HR People for Sick Time::

Heh.

I am in the doctor's office for my final (I think?) check-up for the broken ankle. It's been three months, and it's mostly better. Still have a bit of a limp, because it's still slightly hurty on the bend part of my stride, but that'll get better. The pain in the rest of the foot is all but gone now. They offered PT if I wanted it, which I may see about... but also feels unnecessary if I just give it more time. I'm waffling.


Jessica - Jan 05, 2026 11:41:39 am PST #10921 of 10960
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Crossword tournament question - are folks attending as competitors or non?

What's the average difficulty on a NYT day-of-the-week scale? (I downloaded the sample puzzle but I don't have access to a working printer right now...)


Steph L. - Jan 05, 2026 11:56:22 am PST #10922 of 10960
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Okay, there’s significant cartilage damage and for sure a labral tear with a paralabral cyst full of synovial fluid. Next step is to get in with an orthopedic surgeon who specializes in hip preservation (ie, arthroscopic repair rather than full joint replacement).

Dag, Tep! That's a fucked up hip. So you been doing cancer care all year with a crippled hip? That sounds very painful.

1. I have been doing cancer care with a fucked-up hip. But I have a cane for when walking is agonizing, so there's that.

2. It is pretty fucking painful. I've been trying to not complain about it, because when your husband has cancer, you feel like a dick grumbling about hip pain. (Last night, Tim asked, "What if it's cancer?" Me: "Cancer of the hip isn't a thing." Tim: "Bone cancer is a thing." Me: "Wow, that got dark FAST.") (It's not bone cancer of the hip. Just cartilage that won't get its act together.)

3. I can't overstate how thrilled I am to have an actual-factual diagnosis supported by imaging, so I can proceed with getting this fucker fixed up. When it's fixed and healed, I am going to do ALL THE THINGS. Starting with just goddamn walking to the corner.


Atropa - Jan 05, 2026 12:19:42 pm PST #10923 of 10960
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I can't overstate how thrilled I am to have an actual-factual diagnosis supported by imaging, so I can proceed with getting this fucker fixed up.

Having an actual-factual diagnosis is such a relief. I'm super glad you got one, and am hoping I get one.

Today is my first day back at work, and it's very quiet. Which is no surprise, because damn near everyone in the company is en route to Phoenix for the week-long company kickoff. I am going to use the days I'm not virtually attending sessions to clean up lingering chaos from 2025.


JenP - Jan 05, 2026 12:30:48 pm PST #10924 of 10960

Crossword tournament question - are folks attending as competitors or non?

Competitors! I mean, and also people came in for dinners to socialize, of course. Most of the competition happens Saturday, with, I think, one puzzle Sunday morning.

Then on Sunday, the live top three competitors in a couple of categories compete up front on whiteboards for all to watch -- that would be fun to watch even if you hadn't been a competitor the day before, but I suspect it'd be pretty boring on Saturday if you're not competing. Jesse, brenda -- agree?

What's the average difficulty on a NYT day-of-the-week scale? (I downloaded the sample puzzle but I don't have access to a working printer right now...)

They are different levels during the competition -- there's one notoriously hard one that I guess a lot of people don't finish, but Jesse did last year! I forget whether brenda or Erin (Jesse's friend) did.

I'd say nothing is a Monday, but they're not all Fridays or Saturdays.

I mean, I did terribly overall last year, but I still had SO MUCH fun.

I am prepping for this year's, but even going in cold last year, it was fab. By cold, I mean, we do the online NYT together every day, but I didnt really print and practice writing it out like we used to in the olden days.

This year I've been printing archive puzzles and doing them alone and timing myself, etc. Which is its own brand of nerdy fun, of course. I did that through June, I think, and I'm going to pick it up again now.

I think Jesses's friend said she ordered a couple of the previous years' puzzle packs to practice with. I did that, too, this year though I haven't done them yet.


Jessica - Jan 05, 2026 12:40:10 pm PST #10925 of 10960
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Thanks Jen! I'm thinking of trying as a competitor even if I don't expect to do very well. I am annoyed that the Marriott is already sold out! (There is a backup hotel very nearby but Marriott is where my points work, damnit. Especially for an event that close to where I live.)


JenP - Jan 05, 2026 1:24:21 pm PST #10926 of 10960

I know! I was surprised. At least three of us are at the Stamford.

ETA: And last year I was able to use points to pay for both nights. Although, that wouldn't have happened this year. Still!


erikaj - Jan 05, 2026 2:21:40 pm PST #10927 of 10960
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

I finished a writing submission in two days. go me. -t puts the dots in like the commander likes.(still funny, on the show that McNulty, the drunken hound, is still the best at typing reports. On most TV, he wouldn't be.)


Hil R. - Jan 05, 2026 2:32:05 pm PST #10928 of 10960
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm thinking about doing the crossword tournament -- scheduling it around work and Passover would be a pain, but possible. But the only way I can figure out to manage it would mean not having a car, and probably not being able to bring my wheelchair, which seems like it would complicate things even more.


meara - Jan 05, 2026 2:51:27 pm PST #10929 of 10960

Aww the crossword thing sounds fun, though I am not practiced enough at anything other than the mini to make it worth it.

53 week year sounds confusing. Unless that means we get an extra vacation week or something.

I will in theory be inheriting a chunk from my dad now that he has passed, but sadly not enough to like, retire now or anything. More “make my retirement account more robust”. If only I had a mysterious cousin or aunt or family friend…