Meara, whatever choice you make is the right choice.
Christmas with the Booths was... piecemeal. At no point has everyone been healthy enough to gather but we've achieved small bites at togetherness. Last night was my turn - I'm fine now but asthma in the ER is never fun.
Trust yourself on this meara. You don’t want your last memories to be fighting with him about getting care. Your brother can handle this. I’m sorry it is so hard.
^^ I think this is the best advice.
Asthma solidarity and hugs if you want 'em, Trudy. The ER is never a hopping place to spend the holidays, but I'm glad you're ok now.