Yesterday, my life's like, 'Uh-oh, pop quiz!' Today it's like, 'rain of toads.'

Xander ,'Beneath You'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

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P.M. Marc - Dec 17, 2025 10:33:14 am PST #10625 of 10632
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

One small and trivial bright spot: I decided to go in on group buy with a jewelry designer that made a ring I have that I really like and got through a different group buy, as this time, he had a send in scrap gold for credit option, and because I used to pick up all kinds of damaged jewelry when gold was cheap (and my aunt was a serious metal detecting person), even after the cost of the palladium ring I'm getting made, I have almost $2000 in store credit with him. Like, holy fucking shit. Love that for me.

I don't think I spent more than $75 total on anything that was in the scrap I sent. So, you know, thanks, goldbugs?


askye - Dec 17, 2025 10:34:26 am PST #10626 of 10632
Thrive to spite them

I'm so sorry Plei. I how that Princess Tickybox can get out of isolation and some good medical outcomes

And I hope you can get some relief from all the stress.


lisah - Dec 17, 2025 10:36:45 am PST #10627 of 10632
Punishingly Intricate

What David said, Plei. Sending you all love.


JenP - Dec 17, 2025 10:38:17 am PST #10628 of 10632

Plei, that is all so much. All of the health vibes toward your child. And continued coping vibes to you for dealing with everything from the rest of your family.


sj - Dec 17, 2025 11:14:29 am PST #10629 of 10632
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Plei, I’m sorry you’re dealing with so much. Tons of health~ma for Tickybox.

ltc had her Christmas concert today wearing one of the sweaters I bought her yesterday. She made me move the pin I bought her at the consignment store at least 6 times this morning, and I couldn’t tell if she was still wearing it at the concert. Now I’m hiding at moms for the day. Mom’s sciatica is bothering her, stepdad’s neck hurts, and I hurt everywhere from overdoing it with errands. So, we’re quite a group right now. We’re all reading and have on food tv for background noise.


Laura - Dec 17, 2025 11:38:43 am PST #10630 of 10632
Our wings are not tired.

That is way too much, Plei. I'm sending the ~ma to resolve things and keep you functional in the meantime. Cool beans on the jewelry news.


Trudy Booth - Dec 17, 2025 11:51:15 am PST #10631 of 10632
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Aw Plei. All I can offer is that dark times end. Right now, you put one foot in front of the other and maybe tip your eyes up now and then and look for the light at the end of the tunnel. Keep being the wonderful mother, daughter, and sister you are here. And when you can squeak in the minutes to be your own you, do that - but if there is comfort or rest in a little more junk food and little less exercise take that comfort and rest and don't beat our friend up for that - she's going through a lot.


-t - Dec 17, 2025 12:29:01 pm PST #10632 of 10632
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, Plei. Holding you and Tickybox (and everyone but my focus is on the two of you) in my heart. That is an awful lot, even by 2025's inflated standards


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