I get confused. I remember everything. I remember too much, and... some of it's made up, and... some of it can't be quantified, and... there's secrets.

River ,'Safe'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jun 08, 2024 11:14:36 pm PDT #1034 of 3491
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Way to go msbelle!


Steph L. - Jun 09, 2024 7:23:16 am PDT #1035 of 3491
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Right on, msbelle!


meara - Jun 09, 2024 7:31:09 am PDT #1036 of 3491

Good job msbelle!!

Matt that is disappointing but perhaps for the best that you don’t have tasty tasty giant quantities of lumpia easily available?

I woke up (on east coast time) at like 9am and my brother in law was like “if we are going for a run we need to go” and I’m like “…I haven’t had coffee yet???” Compromise was reached, I have had coffee and he is at the grocery store and we will run when he is back. Though now I want to digest my coffee.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jun 09, 2024 9:21:51 am PDT #1037 of 3491
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

True, though I would like to have small quantities of them occasionally available. Ah well, at least I know now. Maybe the food truck will be back next year?


DavidS - Jun 09, 2024 9:39:21 am PDT #1038 of 3491
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

and I’m like “…I haven’t had coffee yet???"

Definitely a prerequisite for doing any activity.

I have had coffee (delivered to my room, no less). After I pack up my room and we check out, I will take the girls to brunch where even more coffee will be consumed.

Exciting news: Just found out my Tom Waits book has been translated into Greek!

Bittersweet though because Jacqueline would've been bursting with pride at that news.

Still cool though. It's now been translated into Italian, Chinese and Greek. And there's an audiobook. I guess I should check with my publisher to see if there are any other translations roaming around out there.


Jessica - Jun 09, 2024 12:14:09 pm PDT #1039 of 3491
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

We had perfect weather here for the Open Streets Celebrate Pride street fair in Tarrytown, and now I am lounging at home.

Yesterday was supposed to be Get The Kids Real Bank Accounts Day but the banker we had an appointment with had forgotten to block her calendar and wasn't actually there! So much for the convenience of making appointments online.


beekaytee - Jun 09, 2024 5:41:21 pm PDT #1040 of 3491
Compassionately intolerant

What a relief/accomplishment/triumph msbelle!!! Congratulations and I hope you are resting well.

It's been fun just cracking open the world of possibility for Matilda. To get her to think on a bigger scale.

I was thinking this very thing as I worked today. The world that you have opened up for these girls.

When I interned for my counseling degree at the inner-city middle school (which has thankfully been torn down), it just made me so sad that most of those kids would never get the sense that more was available to them. Literally everyone had let them down. They thought that bathroom stalls 'locked' with rusty hangers was normal.

Quite apart from the luxury and privilege, Matilda has a sense of what is beyond her next step and that is a true gift.


msbelle - Jun 10, 2024 6:31:56 am PDT #1041 of 3491
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Thanks all.

I hope everyone had a good weekend.

Back to work alas and the test does not seem to be the source of my anxiety. Or if it was, the anxiety has not left my body yet. Weird dreams continue and jittery innards. I have therapy tomorrow so will discuss.


meara - Jun 10, 2024 6:40:01 am PDT #1042 of 3491

Bummer msbelle. I hope it was the cause and your body just needs another day to catch up or something. I had weird stress dreams last night including one where I had taken a job at a new company where I had to go in to the office but somehow I hadn’t quit my current iob? And I wasn’t sure if I wanted to keep the new one but I could t figure out how I was going to juggle this and it was very stressful.


Dana - Jun 10, 2024 7:26:54 am PDT #1043 of 3491
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Whoops, the body shop found more damage to my car and now the insurance company is totaling it rather than repairing it.

It's not a super-big deal, because we've been talking about getting by with only one car, but now I have to decide how I feel about it.