I'm just trying to tell you that we have nothing in common besides both of us liking your penis.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Nov 03, 2025 12:38:52 pm PST #10006 of 10525
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah, I like waking up when it's light NOW but I know in another few weeks I'm going to be leaving the house and getting home in the dark, and that's just depressing.

True. I find that period right before we fall back when I have to get up in the dark and know that I wouldn't have to if it wasn't DST very frustrating, though! So that is relieved.

I am still trying to figure out if there is any sensible way for me to see Frankenstein. Like, if I go to the Fairfield office in the morning so I can walk through the outlet sale and perhaps shop, and then go to my usual Vallejo office in the afternoon, and then keep on going across the bridge to see a movie, is that ridiculous? Will I regret it Wednesday? Does that theater have good food options I could make be dinner? A lot of unknowns. I have a lot of faith in Guillermo del Toro making a movie I will enjoy, not really worried about that.


Atropa - Nov 03, 2025 2:20:42 pm PST #10007 of 10525
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I, as a person with delayed sleep phase disorder to the point that my natural body clock is primed for being nocturnal, appreciate the Fall Back part of DST. Spring Forward is hellish nonsense.


Karl - Nov 03, 2025 5:15:45 pm PST #10008 of 10525
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Onerousness completed, after way too much faffing about: I actually have a doctor on this side of the Bay. (Of the one I had on the other side, the less said the better.) Next step, later this week: Get said doctor to refer me to a therapist. I don't know whether the time change shook something loose, or I just subconsciously decided it was time; I've known I needed to be in therapy at least since my heart attack in 2018, but the "behavioural psych" that Kaiser assigned me afterward to make sure I was taking my meds was ... not a great fit, and we only got two or three visits in before it fell apart.

If anyone has some therapist~ma lying around, I could use the boost. Thanks very much.


-t - Nov 04, 2025 4:10:14 am PST #10009 of 10525
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Therapist~ma!


Steph L. - Nov 04, 2025 7:33:44 am PST #10010 of 10525
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm legitimately shocked that my Dad outlived Dick Cheney, since they're the same age and my Dad has all the diseases. (Honestly I had forgotten that Dick Cheney wasn't already dead.) RIP, you fucking war criminal.


Jessica - Nov 04, 2025 7:36:32 am PST #10011 of 10525
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

RIP, you fucking war criminal.

I like to think it was the exit polling from the NYC mayoral race that did it.


JenP - Nov 04, 2025 8:19:31 am PST #10012 of 10525

May it begins a spate of evil mother motherfuckers shuffling off.

I should write greeting cards.


Laura - Nov 04, 2025 8:43:15 am PST #10013 of 10525
Our wings are not tired.

He had dropped further down on my list of deplorables that needed to shuffle off the mortal coil, but I certainly applaud the notion that this is the start of a trend.


-t - Nov 04, 2025 9:25:51 am PST #10014 of 10525
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's a nice thought, Jess!

I am quite pleased my dad has outlived Cheney. It's easy to forget how terrible he was with so many terrible people in the spotlight these days, but he really was awful and engineered much of today's awfulness.


JenP - Nov 04, 2025 9:39:40 am PST #10015 of 10525

he really was awful and engineered much of today's awfulness.

Co-signed.