Giles: I'm sure we're all perfectly safe. Dawn: We're safe. Right. And Spike built a robot Buffy to play checkers with. Tara: It sounded convincing when I thought it.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - May 03, 2024 10:48:11 am PDT #100 of 3585
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Had an odd thing happen just now.

I have a suet feeder on my little balcony, placed on the rail so that I can watch it from the table where I have my laptop, and where I spend most of my day.

The suet feeder is pretty popular, and I have several regular visitors. One of them is a male downy woodpecker. He is cautious, perhaps even timid. He will only come to the feeder when there are no other birds in view. If another bird shows up, he promptly leaves.

A bunch of starlings finished off the suet in the feeder just as I was eating lunch. They left. About five minutes later the downy woodpecker showed up. He found an empty feeder. He hopped around to the different sides, checking that there was no suet dough left. He then flew over to my big sliding glass door, and made three hovering/fluttering passes at it. Just close enough to brush the glass with his wings and make a noise, but never at an angle that made it seem he was trying to fly through it. Then he flew away.

I have never seen him do anything like that before.

I chose to interpret that as a request to refill the feeder, and did so right away. Now I am waiting to see how long it takes for him to check back again.

eta: Answer, about an hour.


DavidS - May 03, 2024 11:45:10 am PDT #101 of 3585
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I chose to interpret that as a request to refill the feeder, and did so right away. Now I am waiting to see how long it takes for him to check back again.

He was definitely asking for more.

Speaking of bird visitations, as you may recall shortly after Jacqueline's death I had a window open and a hummingbird flew into our house and wouldn't leave for an hour.

In many cultures a bird flying into a house is seen as a visitation from somebody recently departed.

And, indeed, I've always considered a hummingbird sighting to be a kind of blessing.

Anyway, I'm deep in assembling things for the Memorial and posted a picture of Jacqueline on Facebook. And when I went out to run, with her much on my mind, I was stopped in my tracks halfway across the Panhandle as I spied the first Hummingbird of the season. Green with a flashing ruby-pink throat. It hovered right in front of me, darted about and came back.


dcp - May 03, 2024 11:54:40 am PDT #102 of 3585
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Were you wearing a colorful shirt?


DavidS - May 03, 2024 11:59:53 am PDT #103 of 3585
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Were you wearing a colorful shirt?

Nope. Grey hoodie. Green hat with yellow brim though (Go A's!).


Laura - May 03, 2024 12:42:44 pm PDT #104 of 3585
Our wings are not tired.

Nice visiting feathered friends notes.

Since we are docked we’ve had a lot of seagulls. Back at sea tonight and disembarking in Fort Lauderdale in the morning. My sisters will stay overnight with me then head out.


Matt the Bruins fan - May 03, 2024 2:37:32 pm PDT #105 of 3585
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

The cardinals in my yard seem to approve of the birdseed this year, even nibbling a bit at the stale leftovers from autumn before I refilled the feeder. Late last year only breadcrumbs seem to tempt any wildlife into it.


-t - May 03, 2024 3:41:53 pm PDT #106 of 3585
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, birds paying visits.

I am almost done with my 9 hours of ERP: Fundamentals training which seems surprisingly irrelevant to my role for something with "fundamental" right there in the name. Do I need an hour on how to manage fixed assets? I mean, I'm a little interested, but not an hour's worth of video interested and I am pretty sure I will never ever actually need to know any of that. I was pretty excited to have a new ERP, honestly, but this is sapping my lifeforce pretty hard.


meara - May 03, 2024 5:10:46 pm PDT #107 of 3585

That sounds like a lot of training, t!

Any buffistas want to do a FaceTime-and-chores this weekend? I really need to spend some time going through and sorting clothes and deciding what to keep. But it’s more fun and easier to sustain with someone else “there”!

For now, though, soccer.


-t - May 03, 2024 5:14:54 pm PDT #108 of 3585
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have been told there's a 40 hour long training coming up. I hope that's not really true. Or is spread out over a longish time.


Calli - May 04, 2024 5:51:26 am PDT #109 of 3585
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

One of my neighbors was taken to the hospital in an ambulance last night. He’s lived in the complex for ~30 years, so he’s sort of a fixture here. He’s also a lifelong smoker with cardiovascular problems, so I’m a little worried. It’s a strange feeling being reminded of how fragile humans are. Yes, tragic, violent deaths are happening in the world as I type this, and that’s horrible. But also, I opened my blinds this morning and the guy I always wave to and exchange “good mornings” with wasn’t there, and that’s disconcerting. My world is a few degrees askew.