I'm so glad for your good news, dcp. I also meant to thank you for your emails. They have meant a great deal to me.
I think your mantra is a good one, and the best way to approach things.
Reavers ain't men. Or they forgot how to be. Now they're just nothing. They got out to the edge of the galaxy, to that place of nothing, and that's what they became.
Mal ,'Bushwhacked'
Goodbye and Good Riddance: Hey, at least you didn't get a Peloton. (2019)
Take stock, reflect, butch, moan, vent. We are all here for it.
amyth - Jan 08, 2020 1:21:27 pm PST #116 of 140
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
DavidS - Jan 08, 2020 1:49:48 pm PST #117 of 140
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Great news, dcp!
Zenkitty - Jan 09, 2020 5:08:22 pm PST #118 of 140
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
That's such good news, dcp. I wish you and amyth continued recovery!
Kate P. - Jan 13, 2020 6:09:12 pm PST #119 of 140
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
Just saw javachik's news in Beep Me! So exciting!
javachik - Jan 13, 2020 11:59:33 pm PST #120 of 140
Our wings are not tired.
I'm excited! Tomorrow I'll post a summary here of 2019, now that it doesn't depress me as much. Ha!
amyparker - Jan 15, 2020 12:47:34 pm PST #121 of 140
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.
quester! Your card finally arrived today! It's lovely, thank you so much.
Shir - Jan 17, 2020 11:31:16 pm PST #122 of 140
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Slightly belated thank yous to Theodosia and Epic - your lovely cards arrived a few days ago.
(This was so much fun!)
Atropa - Jan 18, 2020 11:47:25 am PST #123 of 140
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Posting super-late here is a thing, right? Almost tradition for some of us?
Firstly, all my love to the folks who've had rough years. Even if I haven't been posting, you're in my thoughts.
2019 included:
- Launching my Patreon, and while there was a nice response, it wasn't enough to make it the don't have to get a day job thing I was hoping. But I'm still doing it.
- The 10th anniversary of the Gothic Charm School book!!! It's still in print, I'm earning royalties, and apparently I'm a good influence on people's lives.
- I applied to a tech writer job at the strangest company I've ever considered, and they fell over themselves to interview me and give me a job offer. I now work for someplace where our direct customers are law enforcement and government agencies, but our company goal is to be a force for good and make the world fairer and less deadly, so I don't feel my ethics are being compromised for a paycheck.
- Finally, on Dec. 23rd I had a muscle & nerve spasm in my back that won me a ride in an ambulance and a night in the hospital. Being carried down stairs while strapped to a backboard 0/10, would not recommend. I'm mostly better, but I'm still dealing with my left leg being weak and occasionally not working.
May 2020 be a hell of a lot better for all of us.
Zenkitty - Jan 19, 2020 5:02:41 am PST #124 of 140
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Holy shit, Atropa, in both the good and the bad way. Being carried down something while strapped to a backboard is very scary. May your back and leg get better quick. Muscle & nerve spasms are no joke.
But your new place of employment sounds great. Um, are they hiring
amych - Jan 19, 2020 11:10:25 am PST #125 of 140
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
Oh! Hey! Thread still here! And I skip these most years because I feel like the update is mostly the same every year, but then I see everyone else's and delight in hearing from people I don't hear from all that often!
2019 started with fleeing a job I really really loved at one point, that turned really toxic. Over half the software team left within 3 or so months. That kind of toxic.
My current job is... not really a dream job either, thanks largely to a couple of fairly stereotypical techbros in particular, but it pays more and I care about it less. I can stick it out there for a bit.
In the mean time, we were found by a third cat by our usual method of "oh hi sucker humans I am starving on your back porch and you appear to be a sucker". I have gotten deeper into my expensive habit/hobby of building guitars which I one day will get good enough at to sell. Spouse is still heavily involved in fencing as a coach, referee, and (now that he's finally over 40) newly-successful competitor in what we lovingly call the old-farts division. I'm out of the sport for a few years now, and I miss it like fire but also don't miss the level of both joint pain and competition burnout. I bake a lot of bread.
2020 began with our offer on a SHINY NEW HOUSE [link] , which we close on in a month and holy sheepdip how are we ever going to get ourselves together to move even a mile away dear lord I do not have msbelle-level gtd superpowers. Like at all. But it's very pretty and we'll have enough room to actually have people come by! Including wandering buffistas!