Gudanov, I really fear that there is NOTHING you can do that would be good enough for your wife, given her emotional problems. If you have high standards for everyone else around you, it's necessary to pitch in -- instead she gets to stew in her anxiety, and lash out instead of taking responsibility for things she wants to see Done Right but won't lift a finger to do herself.
You are enabling her in this behavior.
Oh, God, I hate Skype chat at work. A coworker just texted me "Hello, Tom", and now is taking five minutes to compose his actual question. Just have your question ready BEFORE you text me, Jeez!
My former manager was the worst. You'd just see the note that said she was typing forever and ever. And then it would stop. And then it would start again.
My coworkers refuse to log into the work instant messenger and instead yell or call for EVERY. SINGLE. QUESTION.
Ugh, that is the worst, msbelle. Stabbing them seems the only solution.
Timelies all!
I've found that I've been more snappish lately than I used to be. How much of that is anxiety, how much is perimenopause and how much is Mr. S, I don't know.
Anxiety and Mr. S alone would be a lot before you brought in perimenopause. I'm worried and anxious for all of you!
Sheryl, I'm asking myself the same questions often.
We apparently have a "company paid mandatory fun celebration" next month.
It probably actually will be fun, but what a weird phrase.
I think they mean a mandatory company paid fun experience. Maybe
My anxiety is manifesting itself by barfing I think. I have had to take three days off work, but I think it is work.