Saffron: But we've been wed. Aren't we to become one flesh? Mal: Well, no, uh... We're still two fleshes here, and I think that your flesh ought to sleep somewhere else.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Jun 25, 2019 4:32:41 pm PDT #9050 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I finally booked ltc's birthday party. Her birthday is not until the second week of August, but we're having the party at the end of July. She has decided she wants a Captain Marvel party, and I couldn't be happier.

Yeah, trying to find a therapist is nearly impossible, IME.

Can you tell my mother this? Yes, I know I need to find a therapist, but it's so hard to work appointments around ltc's schedule and the last few therapists I saw were absolute crap. We have new insurance starting in a few days, and I'm crossing my fingers that the options will be better.


meara - Jun 25, 2019 4:36:57 pm PDT #9051 of 30019

We have new insurance starting in a few days, and I'm crossing my fingers that the options will be better.

Good luck!! I think my insurance is kind of crap, but even still--I feel like most doctors take it, and if I look someone up on their website and call their office, they almost always take it and confirm if they're accepting new patients. But therapists? Heck no. They either don't take the insurance anymore or they're not accepting patients. Or both.


sj - Jun 25, 2019 4:38:45 pm PDT #9052 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I ran into that a ton when I was on a supplemental Medicare insurance. Not accepting new clients at this time constantly.


Calli - Jun 25, 2019 6:39:05 pm PDT #9053 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

There was a study that found something like 73% of therapists on a major insurer's list were unavailable. [link] Guess that's one way for the insurers to avoid paying for it.


aurelia - Jun 25, 2019 6:45:03 pm PDT #9054 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

We're about 35 hours into tech (over 4 days) and it feels like a rare strain of Tourettes is spreading. People are muttering "Pickalittle", "Shipoopi", and "Baaaalzac".

On Friday we will literally have 76+ trombonists here to perform a 15 minute parade/press stunt. We keep getting notices that "It will be LOUD".


billytea - Jun 25, 2019 7:04:35 pm PDT #9055 of 30019
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

There was a study that found something like 73% of therapists on a major insurer's list were unavailable.

Seriously. When I first moved to Philly I had to see a specialist, recommended by my in-network GP, and found myself slapped with a $750 bill for some clown to look up my nose for 5 minutes and declare there was nothing more to do. It hadn't even occurred to me that a health insurer could just refuse to cover someone the government had already licensed to practise medicine. Car insurers don't only pay out if they have an existing agreement with the street on which you had an accident.


Laura - Jun 26, 2019 2:39:46 am PDT #9056 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

The vaccine is vanishingly rare, here.

This is also the case here apparently. Also, yay for new laptop!!


Jesse - Jun 26, 2019 2:52:57 am PDT #9057 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

On Friday we will literally have 76+ trombonists here to perform a 15 minute parade/press stunt. We keep getting notices that "It will be LOUD".

Can confirm. And I've never been in a group of more than like 30 trombones!


-t - Jun 26, 2019 3:25:08 am PDT #9058 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, wow, aurelia!


Jesse - Jun 26, 2019 3:44:45 am PDT #9059 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Also now I'm going to go around muttering "pick a little, talk a little"!