Angel: I appreciate you guys looking out for Connor all summer. It's just—he's confused. He needs time. That's all. Fred: Right. Time, and some corporal punishment with a large heavy mallet. Not that I'm bitter.

'Just Rewards (2)'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jun 05, 2019 10:10:30 am PDT #8490 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

It is actually available, because (don't tell) that is not his legal name!

Whaaaaaaaat.


Topic!Cindy - Jun 05, 2019 10:11:17 am PDT #8491 of 30019
What is even happening?

-t, is a "Pastor" Super Burrito filled with lamb or clergy?

They could stay in Florida for the summer as my son would take care of them here, but I think they will like it in the woods. I just hope they don't catch and bring me home chipmunks! I would keep them inside a week or so before I let them out up there. I have a screened in porch where they could sit on the windowsills and watch the world go by, but I am not sure the screens would survive.

Laura, if you don't know/do this already, you might want to check with your vet to see if your pets need to be vaccinated against Lyme Disease. My poor dog had it really bad. It was discovered during her first year with us (she was a rescue). She was treated with an antibiotic and seems to have recovered, but there can be long term effects of the disease. I don't know if Lyme is a risk in FL, but it is in the northeast (which is where I gather your cottage is).

A different friend commented to tell me that because I'm a married woman, I need way more documents to get the Real ID thingie. I said that, actually, I haven't legally changed my name, so all my legal documents are the same as they've been for 48 years. He said "No, Social Security will flag it if you don't provide proof!" And I asked, "How do I prove that I *didn't* legally change my name?"

He's doubling down on the insistence that there's some kind of "proof" that I don't know about that I am required to produce at the BMV. My dude, it is literally my birth certificate and SS card, which I have in my possession, which both indicate that my name is the same as it's ever been. Back off.

Before the earth cooled (and before 9/11/2001), I half-assed changed my name. I changed it at work. I changed it with the DMV for my license. I filed my taxes under my married name (because that's how I was paid). That was it.

Sometime after 9/11, Social Security started cross-checking its data with that of our state's DMV. They flagged me, because I'd changed my name with the DMV and when I filed my taxes, so I had to go down to Social Security and change it there, too.

 If I had it to do over again, I only would have used my husband's name in social circumstances, because people just assume you have the last name as your kids. I would have kept my maiden name on all my official things.

And yeah, Tep, that guy's just an idiot. Since you've never used Tim's name officially, your last name is the same it has always been. It's the changing that screws things up, not the keeping-the-saming.


Jessica - Jun 05, 2019 10:41:28 am PDT #8492 of 30019
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

BMV guy needs to take several steps back. (1) Not his problem (2) there is no 2.


-t - Jun 05, 2019 11:41:30 am PDT #8493 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It's pork, Cindy. Don't know where the name comes from.


Jessica - Jun 05, 2019 12:04:38 pm PDT #8494 of 30019
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

"Al Pastor" = "In the style of the priest" So presumably named for a priest who really liked pork with pineapple?


Fred Pete - Jun 05, 2019 12:05:09 pm PDT #8495 of 30019
Ann, that's a ferret.

What's not to like about pork with pineapple?


Connie Neil - Jun 05, 2019 12:45:47 pm PDT #8496 of 30019
brillig

There's pineapple.

It was such a pain to get my RealID, what with getting the marriage certificate and all. Then we realized that since Hubby was adopted by the guy he called Dad and changed his name that we might have to get adoption papers. I discovered that there are no long distance charges for calling Hawaii anymore, just using up your minutes (he was adopted in Hawaii). Then we got a copy of his California birth certificate, which had his adopted name on it because Cali corrects that kind of stuff. So the Hawaii adventure didn't need to happen, though it was fun to get official mail from the islands.


-t - Jun 05, 2019 1:22:12 pm PDT #8497 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

No pineapple in this one, I don't think. ::takes another bite to check:: maybe in the marinade but not in the burrito. I just know what the menu says

That reminds me that we have a bridge nearby that was recently named the Al Zampa Bridge and I was all is it Arabic for something, that's neat, but no, it's for a guy named Al. I think the plaque now might say Alfred instead.


-t - Jun 05, 2019 1:24:07 pm PDT #8498 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

This [link] says it's "in the style of the shepherd" and is from Lebanese immigrants to Mexico cooking pork as they had cooked lamb back home.


Sheryl - Jun 05, 2019 1:45:29 pm PDT #8499 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Just once I would like a night with no interrupted sleep. This time it was Gary getting up at 4 to use the bathroom. Fell right back asleep. but still...