How do you say that??
'Lies My Parents Told Me'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
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I say it "Jan".
The food is just so German. So very, very German.
Whaddaya got against sausage and sauerkraut and pirogis and schnitzle?
Mmmmm, pirogis.
I say it "Jan".
Ha! I bet that's right. But with some kind of American accent.
Pirogis aren't German.
I hope having the diagnosis helps, Zen. Medication makes a very noticeable difference to my ability to, like, manage, but just having a rational reason to try to talk myself out of beating myself for being lazy, disorganized, etc has been a real godsend.
just having a rational reason to try to talk myself out of beating myself for being lazy, disorganized, etc has been a real godsend.
I'm still working on not beating myself up anyway, but I'm getting there.
I know how I felt when I found out about Sensory Processing Disorder, which explained so much about my being bothered by stuff
Oh, yes.
Having those letters meant I wasn't willfully stupid--and that was a relief.
Oh, yes. Very much a relief.
As were the realizations that I'm not weird and "wrong," I'm ace and bi. All those are valid ways to be, and I'm not alone in any of them.
Ace and pan, and a relief to figure that out too.
I've named the self-destructive voice in my head Gary and picture him as a big grey stuffy doll so I can mentally punch him in the face. "Shut up, Gary!"
The one in my head is my grandmother. She's been dead 40 years and still won't hush up.
Still working on it, too, but knowing it's something to work on is huge
What is "ace" in this context?
I've seen it a couple of times online this week, and then here. I'd never encountered it before.
What is "ace" in this context?
Asexual.