I wanna die in bed surrounded by fat grandchildren, but guess that's off the menu.

Jenny ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Mar 21, 2019 6:55:44 am PDT #6173 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

And I just noticed that my plug in coffee cup warmer says "Be careful the hot" where you put the cup. I'm finding that charming.


-t - Mar 21, 2019 7:17:41 am PDT #6174 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You would think the Director of Information Services would be able to google something like preferred pronouns, wouldn't you?


Theodosia - Mar 21, 2019 7:26:02 am PDT #6175 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Shir, I wish I could buy tickets to see that, even if it would probably end in actual physical violence. (Though maybe she'd be better behaved in person.) At any rate, I've now blocked her on Messenger and unfriended on Facebook, so her overlap into my actual life is done.

In happier news, another DUKBoat was sighted by me, AND the local garden shop has pansies out for sale. And the Greenway carousel has taken the winter storage panels down and is open for (kind of cold) business.


Shir - Mar 21, 2019 8:26:43 am PDT #6176 of 30019
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

You would think the Director of Information Services would be able to google something like preferred pronouns, wouldn't you?

This, yes. Storyrant time.

So you know how I work at the National Library here? And all is pretty sweet other than payment (which is why I'm applying to other jobs now. Payment is ridiculously low, to all of us). I'm surround with mostly smart people with amazing knowledge and skills, but some of them are with attitudes that make me cringe and wonder why they choose this profession.

I have the wonderful opportunity of helping to shape an SFF event in the library, inviting speakers and curating an exhibition from the library's books and archives. It's cool in mind-blowing scales, however I keep seeing two biases during the set up of this event (and in general, day to day work): 1. "I've never heard of X. X probably doesn't exist and there's no need to have a place for it in the library or take seriously the people who are talking/asking about X", and 2. "We already had this item in an exhibition in the past, so we cannot use it again, it will make us look ridiculous" (I started calling this "virginity tests", because it makes as much sense). This makes me so angry.

Colleagues, you have an incredible opportunity to work in a National Library and a duty to make knowledge accessible to others. How dare you betray this opportunity and deny access/knowledge of an item just because another person saw it before in a different context. How dare you think that you know everything there is to know and to assume that you encountered every field of knowledge that is meaningful to other people. How dare you not to use your position, intellect and skills to make information and data better and meaningful and friendly to others. This is not what being a librarian is about.

end of rant


Jesse - Mar 21, 2019 9:16:09 am PDT #6177 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oof, that does sound ridiculous, Shir. Good luck in your search!

I just finally buckled down to do a task I've been avoiding, and it turns out to be not that big a deal, AND the person who asked for it might not need it anymore! So yay, I guess? (But I could have avoided some anxiety around it by finding all this out two weeks ago.)


meara - Mar 21, 2019 9:26:30 am PDT #6178 of 30019

I hate when that happens, Jesse!


-t - Mar 21, 2019 9:34:29 am PDT #6179 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

One of the people I was supposed to be on a call with this afternoon is on vacation, so that's getting pushed out to next week. Ahhhh, so much less pressure.


Jesse - Mar 21, 2019 9:34:36 am PDT #6180 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I mean, it's better than it being a huge ordeal and a problem that I procrastinated!


-t - Mar 21, 2019 12:07:18 pm PDT #6181 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Whew! I tried to order lunch on DoorDash and my credit card was declined, although the app says I have credit on that card, so I called the bank to see what was up and the CSR says, "Hmm, let me get my supervisor, I don't see an explanation" and the supervisor comes and pokes around and decides to call corporate (I stay on the the CSR who apologizes to me for the inconvenience) and finally they ask if they can call me back, corporate is going to have to do some research. Which is all fine, mysterious things happen and figuring out what to do about them takes time but meanwhile I can't get any lunch! Lucky for me, there was a class today that got pizza and salad provided so I was just able to score some leftovers.

I am an adult and a professional. Yes I am.


Dana - Mar 21, 2019 12:10:13 pm PDT #6182 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I was hoping that would end with them sending you free food.