I get Christmas Eve off and I'm taking the 26th off, and all of that will include family. Otherwise, I will be "working", since my manager failed to correctly explain our "unlimited" PTO to me. I could have pitched a fit if I'd really made plans, but it just means that my work computer will be turned on while I lie on the couch and watch TV.

Your unlimited PTO is not unlimited?

DH was moaning yesterday that we should be on a cruise remembering Christmas past cruising.

I was looking at some of those pictures today and actually thinking the same thing.

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I'm super tired and groggy, and really uninterested in doing any work today. I'm going to drink more coffee and listen to Janelle Monae to see if that improves my mood.

Listened to Jon on WMBR this morning which was quite amusing with Santa visiting. Bonus was it totally woke me up.

Your unlimited PTO is not unlimited?

No, as she explained to me a couple of weeks ago, it just meant taking a day or two above what you had before. Which, I argue with the definition, but fine.

And after she sent me a sort of scolding email about the amount of time I was asking to take and the crucial work that could be done on December 26, 27, and 31 (yeah, right), and I rescinded my request, she said oh, yeah, I guess I had these conversations informally with the people in the office, but it never came up with you.

Fortunately (?) we're going back to non-unlimited PTO next year, so whatever. I'm not at all snippy about it, as you can see.

I am realizing that we as a family have no Christmas Day traditions other than opening presents and just hanging out that morning. So without presents it just sort of a non-day. The meal is nothing set and I have no strong opinions or connection to it, like Thanksgiving. There is nothing we watch like we do the parade and dog show and football on Thanksgiving.

I just want to skip it this year. I'm going to start putting together thoughts on things I can do that will become new traditions for me for Christmas.

If we just all lived closer I would host the gift exchange reveal party!!

the crucial work that could be done on December 26, 27, and 31

My face is a dubious reaction gif right now.

I'm going to start putting together thoughts on things I can do that will become new traditions for me for Christmas.

I'll offer my Christmas plans. Cook a simple Christmas dinner, probably centering around a ham, baked beans, and cranberry sauce with cherry pie for dessert. Eat early, then head out to the animal shelter with a bag of treats to snuggle with the cats there.

That's basically what I did on Thanksgiving. The cats seemed to appreciate the company (and the turkey treats). And I enjoyed seeing the cats again.