I don't care if it is an orgy of death, there's still such a thing as a napkin.

Willow ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Nov 15, 2020 7:11:26 pm PST #29711 of 30019
Punishingly Intricate

So sorry for your loss, Megan


WindSparrow - Nov 15, 2020 7:15:04 pm PST #29712 of 30019
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I thought Freya's board name was after her cat, Freya. I could be mistaken?

I am pretty angry about the whole concept of mortality right now.

Megan, I'm sorry.


quester - Nov 15, 2020 7:20:07 pm PST #29713 of 30019
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ma to everyone!

I've been lurking less lately. for the list keepers, I found out about amyth and DX on Facebook. if anybody doesn't know my FB name is Toni Sheller.

this year just keeps getting longer.


Java cat - Nov 15, 2020 7:30:12 pm PST #29714 of 30019
Not javachik

Still getting used to the new board. It's been ages. It's so nice to be able to use my phone! Thank you, Gud. Windsparrow, yes board name was her cat's name but different from Freya, I'm pretty sure. Just saw Beep Me. I'm sorry for your loss, Megan.


megan walker - Nov 15, 2020 7:34:05 pm PST #29715 of 30019
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Thanks, everyone. As I have been going through my own poking and prodding by the medical establishment (so far so good), it has been quite a few weeks to be sure.

You hosted a couple Buffista-ful shindigs there (and I know I've got pictures).

I would love to see anything you have. Most of the time I lived with Peter I was using my old Pentax K-1000 for photography and rarely took pictures at things like that. IIRC, we did something when Jessica and/or Cash were in town, and that Tom stayed with us at one point.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 15, 2020 8:24:13 pm PST #29716 of 30019
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I DMed EllenS on Twitter about DX.


javachik - Nov 15, 2020 8:34:27 pm PST #29717 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

Oh, Megan Walker, I remember Peter (and that apartment) so well - iirc he’d moved to the east bay. That’s so sad that he’s gone. I’m *almost* over Cash & Guns.

I never got the chance to meet Ed, but I looked forward to his posts.


Susan W. - Nov 15, 2020 8:58:14 pm PST #29718 of 30019
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Megan, I'm so sorry.

In other mortality news (ugh), I just found out that the husband half of the couple who were our next-door neighbors ~1999-2008 died unexpectedly last week, in his sleep, of diabetes complications. We hadn't kept in close touch beyond Facebook and the occasional large get-together since we moved and then stopped going to the same church, but it was still a gut-punch to find out. They were awesome neighbors, almost our exact age, with two kids, the elder a little older and the younger a year or two younger than Alex. I can't even imagine what his wife must be going through right now.

And I would really like all this mortality to slow down for a bit, please-and-thank-you universe.


Zenkitty - Nov 15, 2020 9:09:34 pm PST #29719 of 30019
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I too feel like there's something heavy sitting on my chest stomping out my breath. I'm so sad and scared. After Biden officially won we got what, two days of feeling like the world wasn't ending? That was not enough of a reprieve.

Was the new Good-bye and Good Riddance thread opened? I don't see it and I really want to say good-bye to this hellish year.


aurelia - Nov 15, 2020 9:31:20 pm PST #29720 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

I don't know if Allyson, Burrell, Kristen, Polgara, etc. know.

Allyson knows, and I would presume that means Kristen knows.

Was the new Good-bye and Good Riddance thread opened?

We usually do that in December, don't we?