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Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Sep 04, 2020 11:13:33 am PDT #25720 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, that is worrying, Tep. Good luck to everyone.

It really is hard to maintain the urgency of the "being in a pandemic experience" as long as we have been half-assedly dealing with it. At this point I think I am coping more by not believing that there is a normal to get back to than by embracing the mess we are in, if that makes sense. Like, when someone says something about when we are working in the office again there is a not-that-small part of me that is surprised that that is something that might happen. And if other people are doing the same thing, I can see where that might trigger an urge to discount the danger to make it easier to live with. Or something.


DavidS - Sep 04, 2020 11:14:46 am PDT #25721 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Any 50+ meeting of people is almost guaranteed to have one presymptomatic person roaming around shedding viral load. And COVID is surging through rural Ohio right now.

Outside is nice in theory but then people cluster up close and talk louder and if you're in the shade without the wind blowing through it's not a whole lot better than being inside.

I would not do that.

These family events are EXACTLY how superspreader events are happening now.


Steph L. - Sep 04, 2020 11:23:14 am PDT #25722 of 30019
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Hec, I 100% agree with all of that. My line in the sand is that I'm not comfortable going, but I'm not going to tell Tim he's not allowed to go. He knows damn well that I think it's a bad idea for him to go. And it's so fucking stupid for his 83-year-old father to go and then go right back to his assisted living facility.


Calli - Sep 04, 2020 11:26:23 am PDT #25723 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

But I will feel silly if I am the only one masked.

Our world is a dumpster fire, and silliness is sadly missing. Adding more silliness to the world would be a net plus, I think.

Apparently over 15% of Big 10 football players who tested positive for COVID now have myocarditis, so Steph's high school acquaintance needs to take all the seats. [link]


Gudanov - Sep 04, 2020 11:27:55 am PDT #25724 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping

It really is hard to maintain the urgency of the "being in a pandemic experience" as long as we have been half-assedly dealing with it.

Yeah. It's weird, I mean it's killed 200,000 people in this country alone and I go to the convenience store and I'm the only non-employee wearing a mask.

his 83-year-old father to go and then go right back to his assisted living facility.

That's crazy.


Jesse - Sep 04, 2020 11:33:22 am PDT #25725 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

My little team (me and someone I brought over from my old team) got it together in 2 weeks.

Woo, Lisa! I also hope the people get something out of it.

It looks the savings in benefits will be like 6k over a year which is pretty dang compelling and it looks like a really nice plan too.

Ooh, that is good.

Not that her son's life is worth getting a scholarship: can't go to college if Covid-19 kills you.)

Or have an athletic scholarship if you have heart damage....

Any 50+ meeting of people is almost guaranteed to have one presymptomatic person roaming around shedding viral load.

Not according to this, not where I live, not where Steph lives. THAT SAID, I think you are totally making the right call for you not to go, Steph!


Steph L. - Sep 04, 2020 11:35:45 am PDT #25726 of 30019
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Any 50+ meeting of people is almost guaranteed to have one presymptomatic person roaming around shedding viral load.

Not according to this, not where I live, not where Steph lives. THAT SAID, I think you are totally making the right call for you not to go, Steph!

Our county is 47% risk, and the county where the shindig is happening is 69% risk. Even 47% is too high for me.


Jesse - Sep 04, 2020 11:43:50 am PDT #25727 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I am definitely not saying you (or anyone!) should be going to or having a gathering of 50 people, just that David was overstating things.


-t - Sep 04, 2020 11:45:19 am PDT #25728 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, I meant to say, that's so impressive, lisah! Go you!

The complete mess that is our Bed Bath & Beyond orders this week is crushing my spirit. And I think a smallish part of it is actually my fault, which is making it worse, of course. Argh.


Steph L. - Sep 04, 2020 11:47:10 am PDT #25729 of 30019
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I am definitely not saying you (or anyone!) should be going to or having a gathering of 50 people, just that David was overstating things.

Oh, I didn't think you were; I just checked the data on my county and felt the need to immediately report back with my feelings.