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Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Jun 27, 2020 11:09:49 am PDT #22888 of 30019
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

amyparker, you did a good thing for connie and whoever may be looking for her as part of their family.

...nope. Still have a visual image of cartoon me fleeing from genetic testing. I'd have had a pleasant, quiet life had it not been for family,fore and aft. Don't want more.


Atropa - Jun 27, 2020 11:21:48 am PDT #22889 of 30019
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Still have a visual image of cartoon me fleeing from genetic testing.

Same, but because it's the one tinhat conspiracy theory I actually entertain: I worry the data will be sold to whatever company dangles enough money in front of the testing companies. In other words, I watched the movie Gattica and went, "Yep, that's pretty plausible".


Jesse - Jun 27, 2020 11:23:00 am PDT #22890 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, everything about this new wide-spread genetic testing creeps me out.


Laura - Jun 27, 2020 11:29:52 am PDT #22891 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

That reminds me that we need to do my MIL's genetic stuff. She was adopted when she was 2 and never has found her family. She is 76, so parents are unlikely, but she would love to know if she has any siblings out there.


amyparker - Jun 27, 2020 11:32:33 am PDT #22892 of 30019
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

While I appreciate the privacy concerns and would never say "everyone should do this", I wanted to be able to tell my grandmother what had happened to her father before she died, and this was the only way to confirm it.

Now I will eat my lunch before it gets cold.


Atropa - Jun 27, 2020 11:35:48 am PDT #22893 of 30019
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

While I appreciate the privacy concerns and would never say "everyone should do this", I wanted to be able to tell my grandmother what had happened to her father before she died, and this was the only way to confirm it.

Which totally makes sense! And I know some really good things for people that have come out of genetic testing! But it's the one tinhat conspiracy that gets room in my brain.


Jesse - Jun 27, 2020 11:41:32 am PDT #22894 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Same, Atropa. It's totally Gattaca, not real-people family stuff.


-t - Jun 27, 2020 11:45:18 am PDT #22895 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

A little conspiracy theory-esque paranoia is probably a healthier attitude than mine. I think I've kind of given up on the whole concept of any data actually being private, and I'd like to have it myself, so, hands in the air like I just don't care


Atropa - Jun 27, 2020 11:56:01 am PDT #22896 of 30019
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I think I've kind of given up on the whole concept of any data actually being private, and I'd like to have it myself, so, hands in the air like I just don't care

Honestly, that's the attitude I should have, because I have done enough InfoSec -adjacent work that I know that privacy no longer exists for data. (The Internet of Things freaks me the hell out, but I know there's no undoing that bear.)


Sophia Brooks - Jun 27, 2020 12:05:34 pm PDT #22897 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I think I've kind of given up on the whole concept of any data actually being private, and I'd like to have it myself, so, hands in the air like I just don't care

That's me! Even though it is hard to let go of not actually posting a picture, so for many zoom calls, I am a cat or Penelope from Criminal Minds.

And also, my family drama from 23 and me is made more urgent by Covid. Do I meet these people?