Love isn't brains, children, it's blood, blood screaming inside you to work its will.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Nov 10, 2018 4:36:17 pm PST #1894 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I was starting to worry about my furnace, too, but it finally kicked on! Phew.


aurelia - Nov 10, 2018 5:25:14 pm PST #1895 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Thanksgiving is a quiet day off for me, after the Christmas Carol marathon. The most I do is some kind of homemade root vegetable soup. I guess I should decide on a recipe so I can have the ingredients on hand.

My initial stress response after the 2016 election was to exercise and take self-defense classes. The stress eating didn't kick in until about a year ago but I think I've made up for the delay and managed to gain 12 lbs. I've recently started trying to at least stop that trend. I've been snacking on apples this week!

In my building, the apartment with the thermostat clearly stays warmer than mine. 64° indoors is too cold for me when I'm not doing physical work so I've got the space heater going.

I must have a new neighbor. Someone down the hall was practicing the bassoon this evening. Even scales and etudes are fun on a bassoon!


WindSparrow - Nov 10, 2018 8:19:26 pm PST #1896 of 30019
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Given how much sugary stress eating I've dine in the last some-odd months AND the not-hideously-high score I got on my most recent A1c test, I am guessing being in nigh unto constant anxiety attack mode for weeks on end burns more calories than I expected.

Anyway, I think the Celexa is going to be ok. And I got myself to a therapist on Friday. It'll be nice to relearn how to function on a level of moderate stress.


meara - Nov 10, 2018 8:58:50 pm PST #1897 of 30019

You don't have your own thermostat, aurelia? That sounds horrid!

Carmelizarkon is definitely a planet and not a pie tastiness.


aurelia - Nov 10, 2018 9:00:11 pm PST #1898 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Steam radiators. The landlord controls the heat.


Theodosia - Nov 11, 2018 12:35:27 am PST #1899 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Has the landlord 'bled' the radiators lately?

My old (118yo) house has forced-hot-water radiators, and air condenses out of the hot water water and eventually builds up enough pressure in the radiators that they're only half-full of hot water. There's a cute little key that opens the relief valve on each radiator and you'll get a gratifyingly loud hiss if the pressure is a problem.

(I know you're a Very Handy Person, aurelia, so forgive me if you've already tried this, but it might not be an area that you've ever investigated.)


Calli - Nov 11, 2018 5:41:07 am PST #1900 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

As far as Thanksgiving desserts go, these cranberry bars might work. [link]

I just went on a Christmas tree ornament buying spree. Not sure if it was the relief over last week's results making me feel hopeful or if it's my reaction to the remaining stress being "I will holiday the hell out of the remainder of the year and I will like it! Possibly a bit of both.

Anyway, I've been working toward a sort of bird-themed Christmas tree for the past several years, one or two birds at a time. This year I upped the pace a bit and got a few four-bird sets from Target (seriously, how adorable are these? [link] [link] and a couple of Hallmark "beauty of birds" ornaments off of eBay. Which may be as basic bourgeoisie as humanly possible, but also pretty so I'm gonna just own it and go on with my life.

Of course, now I'm sitting here with my inner Puritan all, "You bought things you don't come close to needing, you wasteful spendthrift! You'll die in a gutter and you'll deserve it!" Seriously, Cotton Mather can take a short walk off a long pier.

I'm really looking forward to getting the tree up the day after Thanksgiving and sitting in a wash of colorful light every evening for the next month.


aurelia - Nov 11, 2018 6:01:42 am PST #1901 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Now I want calling cards with my name and Very Handy Person.

Our radiators each have an air vent [link] . If one starts to drip or get gurgly I call the landlord to replace it. We've been through that dance several times over the years. Since my bedroom closet has a cool breeze from it when open I think it has something to do with (a lack of) insulation around the water pipes (that closet backs up to the business end of the bathroom).

Here's a thing I don't know since I've been lucky enough to avoid navigating the health care system much. I'm supposed to schedule a MRI on my ankle. Do I just schedule it with the imaging center and they will contact the insurance company before the test, or do I need to contact the insurance company to make sure they won't try to deny it after the fact?


Dana - Nov 11, 2018 6:49:56 am PST #1902 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Chances are your insurance company will require a pre-authorization. If your doctor's the one who's said you need an MRI, their office should contact the insurance company to get that process started.


aurelia - Nov 11, 2018 7:06:03 am PST #1903 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Yep, this is per my doctor.