ltc is letting TCG work for the most part, which is good. She has a running commentary on everything she does, which is less great for me, but I am managing to do some writing today. Reading is an impossibility. Laundry and brownies later.
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
I am not going to worry about keeping a distance from Matthew. There is no point. He was making a sandwich and didn't wash his hands before, touched his face repeatedly and unless I take over all the cooking and every bit of food prep there is no point. And probably no point in doing that now unless I can figure out how to disinfect the turkey, mayo, bread etc
And now his mom is on her round of afternoon calls (she does a morning round), on speaker phone with the door open and her tv is on and our tv is on.
And every person his mom knows is going to what about what has happened on our house because there is no privacy and she has to repeat everything. she can't help it she claims if there is a thought in her head it has to be said and people are just supposed to understand that.
So I don't even feel like I can have any kind of conversation with Matthew because it will be gossip fodder
Jacqueline's dad was taken to the ER in the middle of the night last night with breathing issues.
He's on a ventilator now. He's 79 and has emphysema.
This is really fucking bad.
Jesus
Oh, no. Much love to JZ and fam!
Oh no. Much love to you and JZ and all the family
Oh no, Hec and JZ. Your family is way overdue for a fucking break!
Oh, no! Much ~ma to JZ's dad and all of you!
Oh David, I am so sorry to hear this. Let Jacqueline know her dad, and all of you are in our prayers.
I can't even process it. I'm lost. All I know is that he has all the classic symptoms of it but that all his labs were good on admission and they put him on the vent as a prophylactic measure to get out ahead of any possible progression. That's all I know. I'm going to call as soon as I can put my head together.
I literally can't figure out what to do next. I should call the hospital, my dad's girlfriend (or maybe not? She's been up since 3 this morning and when one of my brothers talked with her she was staggering; maybe she just needs to rest), my mom, my dad's pulmonologist. It's not a long list but I literally cannot focus and pick one and start.
I will, in a minute; I'm just all in pieces right now.